No more love.

I'm 18. I can predict my future I think, and there is NO WAY I can see myself having a girlfriend or being in a relationship. You know? I am not good looking at all and I want to be with someone beautiful, but that's the poison, the good looking usually want another good-looking person. Girls are in NO WAY attracted to me or interested in me, I'm just... Not what girls want.

So I thought, why keep loving and if I'll never get loved back? Right? All my life, girls always fall for my friends, ALWAYS. I've known for girls for years on end but once they meet one friend of mine, the girl will do so much as forget my name and forever focus on the friend of mine. Although my friends don't do it on purpose. Is there a way to just, not love anymore? It only hurts me and I gain nothing from it.

I remember this one time, in school I was in this group with a good friend of mine and two cute girls. We were supposed to do some play, the play was supposed to end with both girls getting married, but... Uh OH!!! What happens?!? Both the girls choose to "marry" my friend... Ahahhaa! What a surprise HUH?! I hate life...

What makes it worse as that I've been called ugly so many times, girls saying, "Sorry, you're not that cute, it's just your face. OH but your friend is hot." It doesn't always end with the girls going for my friends, it's just that... I'm not what what a female human beings wants. Everyday I look in the mirror I want to set my house on fire, I can't stand my face. Sometimes I want to borrow someone else's body just to explain to some chick how I feel. For the love of.. I have to ask (sometimes almost beg..) just to get a hug from some girl (if the girl happens to be passing out hugs and as always passes me up).

Please, don't give me the "it's your attitude" crap. I've been hiding my true feelings about this better than any human being alive. I will grow up to be a successful person who never married. I will be invited to parties always questioned where my "wife" is. Maybe if I cut off my feet and fade away from blood loss, I might come back as someone ATTRACTIVE! I remember one time during a Valentine's Day I cut myself because more girls insulted me for my looks. If anyone knows of a way to eliminate love from oneself, please tell, because I will forever love without getting love back. They say, if you can't picture yourself with what you want, you probably won't get it. They were right, using all of my powers I cannot picture me being in any relationship.

Hi, Zippy. I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time with the opposite sex. It's true that people can be superficial and care about looks more than anything. The truth is that we can't really help it. But girls are also atracted to success. Like you said, you'll grow up to be a successful person. Maybe your soul mate is out there. Perhaps you will find someone who's had similar experiences and feels ugly and you'll have a conection. Just becouse you're called ugly, it doesn't mean that it's true. Maybe your self perception will change and with it, your self esteem will grow.

How old are you lad?.

Personality truely dose matter. It just depends upon the age. Teenager's are trivial....tiz true, They know ###$ all about life and can be cruel i think because of that. You ever seen danny devito?. He's one ugly egg shapped mofo. Yet he's married and more importently, In love with his wife who loves him back. Why?, Because he's a good guy who's got a good personality and is funny.

Look at who you sourround yourself with, And...Look at your position within the pack (within your circle of friends). Also if your as p*ssy repellent as you imply work on an angle such as humor where people are seeing something in you that isnt exterior (looks). That can allow these girls to become attracted to that part of you.

Also look at what your looking for, This is also affected by your age as you'll want different thing's as you get older, Your taste's will change. You may realize that those who focus too much of their exterior neglect there interior (T&A without the personality, sense or kindness). They are, as most of the teenage bubble head's, are looking for social status, Not love....which incidently most teenagers confuse with lust.

Plus why are you looking for beautiful women. Who look's for that. Look for girl's with heart, and a mind. That's not to say some girls cant have it all (the package). But as noted alot of girls are trivial. So they'll want a guy who's in their range or attraction. Though it's funny as even fugly girls feel they deserve the good looking guy.

Ever see any talk show's where there's some hot guy with a girl who's ghastlier then a thousand ghouls. Or some nice looking girl with a guy who's a 500 pound tub of goo. The point of show's are these people are together in relationships and love one another and they want the pretty face of the pair's to explain to society how?, Why?. It's always the same answers, Because he/she has a kind heart, because they are loyal, because they have a great personality, And most of all because they can make me laugh.

In the end every pot has a lid, So just remember that and stop looking for something. Then something can find you instead.

I've kind of turned anti-social now so getting women would be even harder. But I asked if it's possible to teach yourself to not love anymore.

No.

Weak..

WOW girls just flat out called you ugly, i dont know where you look for girls or where you live but it appares you only talk to soul-less heart-less superficial girls because unless you are mutant ugly with three arms and five legs theirs no acusses because i know some really ugly(excuss my language) guys get some really hot girls just because have serious game no lie. Dude you need to seriously work on your game because from the sounds of it you have abosoulty none, for example never beg a girl for a hug even if they are dishing them out like hot cakes it makes you look desperate and if you know you are not that good looking dont even try. And about that switching bodies thing even if you get girls by your looks that would only go but so far if you have no game(and if you dont know game is a universal term for how to deal with talking to women). You have friends dont you ask them for help because from the sounds it they get alot of pull with their looks and i am guessing they have game since they always get the girls/woman. but from the sounds it you seem to far gone for advice and just want to quite dont its part of life rejection and acception thats how you learn dust yourself off and try again even though its hard every half decent/ not so good looking guy has gone through it some quite and live alone others do as good as celebrities.