Dismissive-Avoidant And Conflict?

What is the best way in trying to resolve conflict with a Dismissive Avoidant if they refuse to listen to you and they shut down?

Especially if you told them you no longer want anything to do with them i.e no contact and no friendship. But you feel bad because they hurt you which is what resulted in you cutting contact with them.

How can you reach out and try to make amends?

My first thought is that with anyone else, a heart felt message is what is best. It's always up to the other person to decide what to do with it, but we do ourselves (or others) no favors by trying to cook up something to manipulate/sway others. Write what you honestly feel.