Looking to bring closure to my main problem(s)

I'll be brief.

I'm here really for one reason - to try to figure out a way to curb one issue in my life. I believe that finding peace in this one part of my life will cause the rest to pretty much fall into place.

I'm 27 and have never had a gf, dated, or had sex. My experience/involvement with women is zero. This is due to many reasons I won't go fully into as they're not important. I'll just say it's due to being ugly, unattractive, and undesirable.

So, in recent years I've concluded that gaining access to the dating/sex/relationships/love world is a decisive impossibility for. Most people in my predicament have the mindset of "never giving up", or trying to improve themselves so as to try to better their situation. But that's not my mindset. I instead wish to completely abandon the idea of engaging in these things. The only hurdle is the fact that the evolutionary need and desire for these things is still there. Therein lies the crux of my question. How can I get rid of the desire for these things? I just want to purge the desire within me for these things so I can live peacefully. I would like to discuss possibilities of this here. Thanks.

only way to eliminate normal sex drive is castration as far as i am aware. what leads you to believe that you are ugly, unattractive and undesirable? this is your real problem that a professional therapist can assist you in overcoming. many very attractive women match up with guys that i would consider ugly. amber heard immediately comes to mind.

don't give up on a relationship i am sure there are many women that would respond if you made the proper approach to a relationship.

the desire for intimacy goes deeper than just the physical. it's mental. it's intellectual, emotional and spiritual. and it's intrinsic. it can't be purged. it goes to the very heart of being human. so, no, that's not going to go away. you're going to have to find ways to fulfil it that are less direct. now, i'll let you into a little secret here. i'm an aspie. and aspies don't do small talk. we don't chit-chat. well, i do. i've developed quite an extensive range of chit-chat. it's not that it holds my interest deeply in any way. i'm not addicted to gossip columns. but it does to some extent gratify my need for intimacy. i can get a little bit of my need for human contact waiting for the bus, at the check-out, sat on a park bench. and, just occasionally, these little bits of human contact can be very worthwhile. just recently i got talking to someone and ended up with a few book recommendations. and the book recommendations look promising too. the thing is, with a few basic social skills a whole world of opportunity can open up before you, provided you're just willing to give it a go.