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by Zoitgeist » Tue Apr 17, 2018 12:26 pm
The girl i'm currently chatting with basically every other day, always responds with very short 1-3 word short replies. At first i thought that she's not interested at all cause girls usually act like that when they don't care and want you to stop contacting them right? I asked her if she's like this with everyone and she told me yes... So i'm not even sure anymore if she's just shy or.. The thing is, she always responds to my questions, doesn't matter how frequently i text her. We haven't met yet so I asked her today: "on a scale 1 to 10, what are the chances that we are getting a coffe together anytime soon?" and she replied with 6-7 ) So i can assume she's somewhat interested in me. I just wonder why are her replies so short even to open-ended questions? I just hope she won't act the same during our first date if that happens...
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by shock_the_monkey » Tue Apr 17, 2018 12:44 pm
ask her to tell you about her interests. if she dives off into a lengthy monologue, you're possibly dealing with an aspie. aspies don't tend to have a lot of imagination when it comes to small talk, but they sure can dish it out on their special interests.
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by Zoitgeist » Tue Apr 17, 2018 1:25 pm
Allright, i forgot to mention the most important thing here. She actually DOES currently have a boyfriend. The thing is, i found her on a dating app and ended up messaging her. The next day i added her on facebook and found out that she's actually in a relationship. When i asked her about that, she replied with "what boyfriend?". She seems to be hiding the fact that she currently has one so there's definitely something wrong between them. Either she's bored of him or is about to break-up. This is the main reason why i've been playing this thing slow with the first date thing. Opinions?
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by shock_the_monkey » Tue Apr 17, 2018 8:34 pm
Zoitgeist wrote:She seems to be hiding the fact that she currently has one so there's definitely something wrong between them. Either she's bored of him or is about to break-up.
... or she's just plain old forgotten to update her facebook profile!
Zoitgeist wrote:Opinions?
... just ask her.
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey
there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey
don't like it but i guess i'm learning
... shock the monkey to life
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