Ex girlfriends keeps calling me every night?

My ex and I broke up 5 months ago. I was the one who got dumped for numerous reasons: kind of cheated on her by kissing another girl in a club, by being too clingy, needy, emotional the last 2 weeks before the breakup etc. Pretty much deserved it.

So long story short, she basically started calling me every night at like 10-12pm the last week or two. The first converstation we had was basically just me apologizing for being a moron before our breakup occured and told her that i fully understand now why she dumped me. She's been continuing to call me every night since then and we've just been having a really nice, fun phone conversations.

My question is, why has she been calling me late at nite? She didn't mention what her real intentions are. I just don't want to seem clingy or needy again. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend and isn't activly searching for one, but I do want to be with her again since i still love her.

It's really weird to me that she only calls me at like 10-12 pm. I know she usually finishes work at like 9pm most of the days but still..

By the way, she also called me last night yesterday but i had to hang up since i was really busy and told her that i would call her back the next day. However, she replied with: "don't - i will call you tomorrow myself when i'm not busy". She sounded kind of mad.. i'm not even sure.. Opinions?

Have you called your ex boyfriend late at night and if so, why do you do it?

ATUD (aberrant telecommunication utilisation disorder) - it happens when people no longer have the cognition to randomly arrange their calls.

alright, i should probably give this a serious answer. my crystal ball says that she's only calling you after she's finished all the 'important stuff' in her life, and that she's using you to off-load. she gave you the boot for giving another girl just one peck - very committed. if she's that high and mighty, she should leave you alone rather than playing with your hopes.

Yea, when my ex and I had broken up, while she still wanted to talk (be friends), I really couldn't do it sometimes, but if I could, it had to wait until/after all my normal life routine was taken care. It's healthy to get one's life back on track after a break-up. So could just be she is just going through her day before contacting you.

It's up to you two to mutually agree what happens next. Nothing wrong with either choice. Sometimes people do get back together after breakups and all is well, sometimes not.

Zoitgeist wrote:By the way, she also called me last night yesterday but i had to hang up since i was really busy and told her that i would call her back the next day. However, she replied with: "don't - i will call you tomorrow myself when i'm not busy". She sounded kind of mad.. i'm not even sure.. Opinions?

... this is the bit that i picked up on. she wants this all on her terms: my way or the highway. do you really want a relationship like that, even as just friends? i know that i wouldn't.

my brother was very strict about when i could call him. not before 09:00 and not after 21:00. anyway, i missed two calls from him one day, so i naturally thought that he might be worried and called him back ... at 22:00. and i didn't half get it in the neck. i've never called him since, nor will i ever again.