Relationship issues with a narc

Hi guys,

I had been with my girlfriend for approx 2 Year’s, until a recent breakup. It is now that I am really starting to realize that she is a narcissist, we’ve gone through breakups (discards) before that are always decided by her. I always feel manipulated and blamed. Every time she breaks up it’s like she uses it to make me ‘comply’ or to get information out of me. I attached some screenshots of a recent conversation tonight that really shows her behaviour. She is bringing up a time from over a year ago when I moved away for a job, in which she broke up with me and so I tried to figure out why, I downloaded tinder to see if she was on it and she will not let it go because she feels like I cheated on her. (I didn’t) I’m just looking for some insight of how to deal with this, I really love this girl and I would do anything to make it work with her but her manipulative behaviour is so over the top I don’t know what to do.

never love someone that doesn't love you in return. if all she wants to do is manipulate and blame you, that isn't love. that's usury.