a lil vent....

my 'ex' is a ######6 asshole, i ######6 hate him


he irritates me, annoys me


he doesn't want to let go


i understand, after six years of being together , its not easy to just cut off contact (for him anyways)

but, when i make up my mind about something, its done, and im over it


whats bothering me is that, a month after breaking up with him, he is still trying to 'play games'

note i said 'trying', as im quick to dismiss #######4


i do , however, have compassion


so after the phone rings for the umpteenth time, i pick up knowing how #######5 it feels when youre trying to reach someone and they dont answer

anyways

hes an idiot

hardheaded, stubborn, self-absorbed, selfish, two-faced, despicable , IDIOT

if i could fly kick him in the face, i would


what bothers me most is that i dont care anymore, and he keeps trying to get me to care


of course i just completely ignore him

then i get the 'im sory blah blah' messages after a few days

so i accept a call , while letting him know i still find him disgusting


anyhow, i just wanted to vent about how #######5 this person is behaving recently

Hey again Superstar,

What would it take to change your phone-number, or to get the phone-company to block him from ringing you? You might be apprenhensive about doing this at first but after a few days it will feel liberating.


Each time you answer his calls you are progressing your anger; going back to square-one. Be the big person and just erase each link you have to him from your life. He clearly is incapable of forgetting about you... ...are you capable of forgetting about him? If so, then prove it and actively do it.


Move on, for you have no time for this nonsense in your gracious life.


Take care,
Kevin.

yes I agree with Kevin.

Change your numbers. COMPLETELY ignore him. I had an ex who was exactly as you describe your ex. It took a lot to convince his stubborn head that it was over. One day he came to terms with finally and he came to me and said "You'll see, in 5 years you will be begging for me back"

It's been 12 years and I haven't seen his face since he said that except once by coincidence and we had a very brief conversation.

Be strong.