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"Friends with Benefits" Advice

Postby skater123456 » Wed Sep 14, 2016 9:50 am

Hi Guys,

So I'm really confused. I met this guy on Tinder (yeah I know makes me sound desperate) and after about three weeks of constant talking we met up. Usually I'm really really nervous around guys (I hardly spoke to my ex boyfriend when I was in a relationship with him cause I was shy and nervous) but with this guy it was different. We laughed, went on a long drive and one thing led to another and we slept together. I hadn't slept with anyone in about 8 months and he was the second guy I'd ever slept with. I went home and felt amazing but there was a part of me that was panicking. He sent me a few flirty texts the next day and the following week we met up again.. Hung out and then slept together. We made a few jokes about how we both thought it was going to be a one night stand originally but that we were both left wanting more which is why we came back to each other. Since then we've been sleeping together nearly every week for the last 3 months. After we sleep together we usually go to the pub or chat in his car about our pasts and what we want to do when we're older. When my parents went away he came round a couple of nights and we watched films after we slept together and I mentioned that I was having friends round for takeaway later that week but that I was bored of always being third-wheel and he said he'd come round to the takeaway thing. He texted me on the day apologising as he ended up having to work. He always insists that he wants to meet my friends and even came with me to hang out with my best friend and her boyfriend but then they didn't show up so me and him went back to mine. Then he went back home to his parents for three weeks and I didn't hear from him at all. He kept checking my snapchat story but never actually messaged me. He got back last week and we started talking again. I met up with him a couple of nights ago and one thing led to another and we slept together again. He always insists that we hang out for a bit afterwards. We went to the pub and then he got really annoyed when I paid for my drink separately :') He also told me that when he was away he slept with someone else and when he asked me if I had seen or slept with anyone whilst he was away and I said I'd been talking to someone else he got really angry.

I'm so confused. Can I have some help please xxx
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Re: "Friends with Benefits" Advice

Postby Helper18 » Sat Nov 19, 2016 3:31 pm

Hi :) Did you solve your problem and how? What happened?
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