impossible crush

ok, maybe im wrong here


but you seem to constantly put yourself down and stop yourself at every turn

this is fine... i just assume that you meant to come here to vent ?


self-pity is good, especiallly when in the initial healing stages, but it wont help solve the problem; and thats OK if you dont want to solve the problem now


i just want to clarify for everyone else (including myself) who keep throwing suggestions at you, as I know tihs can be annoying and frustrating when youre trying to 'have a pity party'


which, like i said before, is a completely viable way to heal