Should I forgive her?

I don't know why she acts like this,I wish I did know though, so I could do something to prevent it/stop it. If anyone would know what this could be, please tell me.

Lets call her E, & my friend who experienced it with me W

We were in normal friendship, we had our ups & downs, but we had a pretty solid friendship We would always have sleepovers, go places, we would sometimes go to each others house after etc. Then in 8th grade- she started being mean to me, she would ignore me, treat me like crap, not talk to me at all, & always had my friends side. I don't even know why she treated me like this, but no one would believe. They thought she was innocent. Fast forward a few months, & we were friends again, but would never have as strong as relationship. This was the first major trouble we had. She would obsessively ask about things over & over again.


Then came 9th grade, almost all of first semester was good. Then my two friends(E &W) got into a HUGE fight, they want me to choose sides. I did.... but I also somewhat supported my other friend(E). My friend(E), told a few people that my other friend still had a Imaginary Friend, &
10th grade, nothing really happened to me, but she almost pushed one of my friend(W) over the edge(she kept telling me she wanted to die/that she had a plan, & was going to use). She then started to be obsessed with my friend(W). They we're both girls, she(E) would talk about sex,go really close to her,& other things.

11th grade, tho. Was the worst. She(E) picked on me first, & W. She(E) would make you really slept with her baby blanket, & she want hurt her. This made her get bullied but she didn't care.
happy, & we would forgive her, but she wouldn't be nice to us for long. She would then either make you depressed, or angry. She was very manipulative, would compulsively liar, & claimed she didn't know when she was lying. She then went to other people in our small friendship circle. She hit one of my friends on the but,& would always ask if we we're talking about her.

Sorry it was so long.

I don't know how old you are, and it doesn't even matter. BUT it seems that you got in a messy situation that is not beneficial for none of you involved - E, W, nor you. Better stop talking to both of them and search for new friends.

E might feel or think you are interested in her in a sexual way and that's why she acts this way to make you stop. W may have gotten entangled in the mess against their will. better to walk away.

Puberty's always been hard. But never more so than this generation, the first to really have to go through it under a microscope with all the online social media stuff. It's like being a celebrity without the perks. My opinion is the acting out stuff is the result of puberty and sexual frustration. Puberty's when you're body's screaming every moment it wants sex, but you're told you can't until you're married, or older. It's only natural many have emotional and psychological problems as a result. Not being able to enjoy sex because you're single is one thing. Then it's just more effort required on your part to find someone. But being told you can't do something you really wanna do is hard in the best of circumstances. So people are kind of crazy in a real way. They're not doing what their bodies are telling them to be doing.

When friends drift off or become enemies then go back to being friends, never more so is it a matter of sex. For kids what else would it be about? You're not working in any real way, not in a university enviroment, or otherwise out in the real world yet. A teen's concerns are simplistic but no less real than an adult's.

Being the male friend of two girls means they're both competing with each other for your sexual attention, whether actual or imaginary. It's what we all do subconsciously and consciously. If we all just had sex freely without all the complication and guilt things would be a lot easier as we see in animal species where promiscuity is normal vs those where it isn't. The promiscuous animal societies get along great, rarely if ever fight among themselves or with other groups, whereas the ones that practice monogamy and thus compete for mates are very violent indeed.

As to frogiveness itself, should always forgive since not doing so, holding a grudge means you're spoending mental time stoking the fire of hate and anger which only hurts you yourself keeping your thoughts in a negative area. Can make you physically ill maintaining that hatred.

I agree with HesDeltanCaptain, these girls probably both liked you, a lot.

Then in 8th grade- she started being mean to me, she would ignore me, treat me like crap, not talk to me at all, & always had my friends side.

When you say this, it reminds me of my own childhood and how girls reacted. Her negative attention was her way of getting your attention. She was sexually frustrated. That's how girls act, and she wanted you to make a move.

I don't think you have to forgive her, but rather remember that when girls treat you like this, it's probably because they like you. Remember this for next time and make the move!

Did i mention i was a girl? I am sorry if i didn't.

& W didn't do anything to me, it was all E. Sorry I was so unclear in my thread

She now, wants to be friends again. I've told her many times we could just be "school friends" & she didn't respect that. She told me she now understands we can just be school friends, & it's fine if we are just school friends. She asked for another chance.

I'm glad she accepts that now, & is nice. But it was so sudden, last I tried being nice to her, & even this morning I told her I prayed for her, & she go angry & asked why & was rude about it. suddenly, she asked if we could be friends again.

I'm just confused.

Does she want to be friends with me again? Does she feel guility about being mean to me?

I did wear a cute sweater,w/ a scarf, & some fancy boots, & leggings. I look good today, & NOT like a bum. She is sexually attracted to me she admit she was lesbian.

Maybe she is doing this because she wants be to hang around her so she can "get" close to me, more than friends... What do you think? is she sexually attract to me, & thats why she was nice to me today? Does she just want to be regular friends? Feel guility?