Quick Question...

I'm seeing this girl right now, and she's amazing. One thing though, is that everytime I hold her hand, we hold eachother, or she rests her head on my shoulders, I get an erection.

Now...I don't believe in sex before marriage, and I've never had any sexual thoughts about her in any way. And when I do get an erection, I don't have any of the usual sexual urges associated with it. I just find it to be quite weird, and I feel bad everytime it happens, because I think it cheapens my strong feelings for her.

Does anyone have any input on this? Thanks for reading.

No one has anything to say?

Hey, it happens dude.....I don't think it cheapens anything. Look at it this way, I don't know how old you are, but in 30 years you might just be wishin' it was workin' that well.

Hey, I think it's a good thing! If anything, I'd be really flattered- I can't imagine a woman who would be that upset that she lights your fire (even me, and I'm totally terrified of sex!) And I really don't think it cheapens anything either. After all, sex can be the most passionate expression of love, if that is what you want it to be.