Pressure...

It's my girlfriend. She just puts too much pressure on me. Every time!
I have to do that, I have to do this, I have to act like this, and so on. I can't endure anymore of this. I do love her and want to stay with her, but I don't know what I should do. I don't know how to talk.
In sex, for a example. Sometimes, I HAVE to do it because she want to do it. If I won't, she'll be mad with me the whole week! Won't talk to me. Even if she's on period and I can't... You know.
When we're walking together, for example. I can't look to any other woman that's passing by! And if it's a friend of mine, she'll be mad if I keep talking to him for like, 10 minutes.
We're together since February.
It's, perhaps, menstruation? It's not like, every day. But it seems so constant.

My question is: What should I do? How do I talk to her? Any hints? I really don't know what to do.

PS: Yes, it's my first girlfriend. I'm seventeen and she is sixteen.

Ar Ciel wrote:PS: Yes, it's my first girlfriend. I'm seventeen and she is sixteen.

Awww bless.

You're clueless as balls and in a relationship with someone clueless as balls. Dump her via Facebook and forget all about it.

Dump her. And I really mean you be the one to dump her. You should be smart enough to see that this isn't your great love. This isn't even a minor love. This is rubbish. If you dump her you're going to be so set up for life, it'll teach you standards and how to refuse to let yourself be put through $#%^.

To be fair, it's a two step process. (1) Communicate that you have a problem with this. (2) When this goes unresolved, dump her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a01QQZyl-_I

But simple as that, Science?
I mean...who knows if she listen? But eh...I know nothing of relationships. You're probably right. I'll try to talk to her. Depending of what I get, I don't think this can go any longer.

Thank you guys!

yeah but not by facebook tho lol

Im-pure wrote:yeah but not by facebook tho lol

You have to end relationships like that on Facebook. If you've struggled through a 15 year marriage and you've grown apart mentally and physically, then you do it in real life. If you've had 6 months before you've even grown proper facial hair, you do it on Facebook.

ScienceAndCake wrote:

Im-pure wrote:yeah but not by facebook tho lol

You have to end relationships like that on Facebook. If you've struggled through a 15 year marriage and you've grown apart mentally and physically, then you do it in real life. If you've had 6 months before you've even grown proper facial hair, you do it on Facebook.

ahhh thats right add that
so that the young OP wouldn't think ALL the relationships should be ended on Facebook (:

Im-pure wrote:

ScienceAndCake wrote:ahhh thats right add that
so that the young OP wouldn't think ALL the relationships should be ended on Facebook (:

He's smart - he would have figured it out on his own

I agree with Ashlar.

Ashlar wrote:To be fair, it's a two step process. (1) Communicate that you have a problem with this. (2) When this goes unresolved, dump her.

The thing is sometimes with teenagers, they associate bf/gf as a possession and not a companion. It could be the fact that she is afraid of you leaving her and wants to take control of you to insure you don't. Or it could be the fact that she is insecure. Either way, in relationships, if the other person does not treat you with appreciate, respect, and trust in the beginning, there is a good chance it is going to continue this way.

Let her know that you like her and you are grateful she is with you but you two take turns doing things for each other and nobody is in charge of the other person.