I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE

My boyfriend of almost four years is bi-polar. He has medication that he takes regularly but refuses to go to any councilling to deal with his deamons. I am so sick of it always being about him. everything I do is for him everything I have ever done is for him. However when I need someone I have to go to my parents because he doesn't think my complaint warrents his help. I love him more than anything in the world but I can't do this anymore why doesn't he love me enough to want to get help, why am I not good enough for him to want to change? Please I don't know what to do I am lost without him but alone with him.

tired

o gosh...

sometimes, there's only so much you can do. it sounds like he is unwilling to work for your relationship, and you're just giving and giving...but not getting anything back.

i have great sympathy for him, but he needs to help you out a little! make it clear that he needs to go to conseling, for both of you..and then see what happens

keep in mind, too, that maybe you'll be lost without him...but you'll be found.