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i moved 2000 miles to be with a man i love,things were good in the begining , going on 3 yrs now and he wont committmet and i have caught him internet cheating , but he lies to his death about it all, we no longer have sexual relations , but maybe once every couple months he says he loves me but has more excuses than carter has jellybeans, I just need to get some input i am ready to give up this relationship.

MissKelly,

You'll have to excuse me if I sound a little to the point, but it simply sounds to me as if being with this man has been a kind of a big goal in your life. Often in life, people make long term goals. Once fulfilled, they can be left wondering why they don't feel so great as they thought they would. I put it to you that you simply need to find new a new set of goals.

There's more than likely nothing at all wrong with your relationship - you probably just need something new to aim for. Start small with a goal to achieve by the end of the month, then for the year, and go from there. I'm sure you two will have a wonderful relationship together.

All the best.