help!!!!!!!!! im goin mad!!!!!!!!!!

my boyfriend has been stressed for the last few weeks so has taken a break from our relationship for this weekend. he said he loves me and will come back on monday and love me more than ever! but what if he doesnt! what if he decides he doesnt want to be with me! i love him soo much and couldnt live without him. hes only been away for 3 days and i cant eat or sleep. i know hes coming back and he loves me but i cant hep thinking the worst! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know it can be tough dealing with this kind of thing but the thing you have to remember is: If he doesn't come back, then it's for the better. You love him so much, and if he desides that he doesn't want to be with you, then you're better off without him.

What I mean is, you have a better chance of having a good relationship with eachother if he doesn't wants you and leaves.

The worst thing that can happen is that if he knows in his heart and doesn't want to be with you, but stays for your sake. What ends up happening is that over time, he will start to show forms that he doesn't want to be with you. He will end up treating you porly, you guys will fight more, he will constantly lie to you, he could cheat on you. It would end up destroying the chance of a good relationship, because if you go through all of that, it will make you hate him.

That's the worst senario. All of your worrying could be over nothing. My advice to you is that if he does come back, make sure find out that he wants to be with you, and isn't just back together with you to save face.

Good luck and post an update.

@ Slave.....sounds like you have personal experience of that scenario.

@rebcsimaster....you say he was stressed but Why ?????? Its all well and good checking out for the weekend but he at least owed you an explanation as to why he has decided to go.

I think you will have to wait it out until he gets back and then have that conversation with him. Try not too stress........he may just be kickin up his heels..... in which case all your stressin will have been unnecessary......

Difficult to stop your mind from imagining all sorts but you will have to get a grip. He may come back and be cool. He may come back and not be. Either way you will not know until he DOES so, try to relax, maybe go out with some friends or write your worries down and put it away until he gets back.

Thanks to both of you for your advice! i have just spoken to him and he says he loves me more than ever and he was crying on the phone because he missed me soo much! he has written me a letter to explain, typical me but im now worried what it will say, and i asked wheather it was good or bad and he didnt really answer just kinda said not too bad! i know it will contain stuff that will upset me and i can deal with that because i know now how much he loves me! im so happy and your advice really helped thanks!!! xxx