Whats in a realationship for a man?

Well I live in Canada and I'm coming from a completely different culture and well Ive never yet had a chance to be in relationship with a girl but the problem is the more time is passing the less eager I become in finding a partner and there is this math/logic problem about it that I can't solve.

For example I like a girl and I need to chase her and do the first move right? and She needs a guy to be with and have fun and have a close friend to talk with right? so till now the guy is doing everything right? Then the girl gives the guy what he wants most and makes them close together which is sex and now my problem is that don't girls enjoy sex too? I mean so if guy chase the girl and did everything to get her and he knows that she has nothing special to give him in return other than sex which she also enjoys her self then the guy is giving 2 and getting 1 in return? I mean is that fair?

dont get me wrong I am not an stupid emotionless robot my problem is that I think other people around me specially girls who I used to think are more emotional than man are in fact emotionless creatures who think they should to be chased and man are emotionless while they don't know that they have nothing to give other than sex...

F47 -

It sounds like you're attracted to the wrong kind of women. Some people are very emotional, but not everyone who is emotional is capable of love, including yes, some women are not capable of love and are only in a relationship for how they benefit. Men can be very emotional too of course, and some of the world's best known romantics were/are men.

Regarding sex, yes of course most women enjoy it, but ...it's a personal choice. It can be a glue that brings a couple closer together, or meaningless, or used to control, or even sold for profit. Such is freedom. I think you just need to meet a woman who has values similar to your own. Hang in there. There are some really good women out there too.

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