Gender Preferences in Paraphilias

Alright, I'll start with throwing the basics out there: I'm a bisexual female, with a strong preferences toward men. Not too unusual, eh? But then there are my two paraphilias...I'm a necrophile and very much into omorashi/desperation/wetting.
First, necrophilia. I'm not going to get into all the details of this side of me or try to explain my interest in corpses when I can actually be quite satisfied by the living, I'll just skip straight to the preference part. While I suppose either gender would do, whenever I fantasize about myself with a corpse, I much prefer it to be male. Considering my sexuality overall, this isn't so unusual.
The omorashi, however, is a different story. While I can enjoy male omorashi if he's attractive enough, I almost never fail to get off to female omorashi. It could be because this was the first sort I was exposed to when I discovered this side of me, but whatever the reason, female wetting victims are my favorite.
Is there any reason for my contradicting gender preferences? Or is it normal and I'm just looking too deep into things?

Hard to say, I'm very much only attracted to preteen girls, but it does not stop me thinking preteen boys can be very cute, I'm just not sexually aroused by them, so maybe it is just a form of hardwiring that occasionally glitches?

I can certainly relate with the necro part. I too am bisexual, but I don't find female corpses at all attractive. As for the living, I've been hurt and disappointed too many times for me to desire them at all, except for my baby, but my baby is necro too, so we're a good fit. To me, it's not just about the sex with a corpse, it's about the spiritual connection with his energy, as his soul leaves him for good. I'm perfectly content with just holding them, touching them, being tender. What can I say, I'm a big huge softie!

Pedosneedlovetoo wrote:Hard to say, I'm very much only attracted to preteen girls, but it does not stop me thinking preteen boys can be very cute, I'm just not sexually aroused by them, so maybe it is just a form of hardwiring that occasionally glitches?

That's probably true, I have a tendency to over-analyze things.

necrofairy wrote:I can certainly relate with the necro part. I too am bisexual, but I don't find female corpses at all attractive. As for the living, I've been hurt and disappointed too many times for me to desire them at all, except for my baby, but my baby is necro too, so we're a good fit. To me, it's not just about the sex with a corpse, it's about the spiritual connection with his energy, as his soul leaves him for good. I'm perfectly content with just holding them, touching them, being tender. What can I say, I'm a big huge softie!

I've been rejected by the living quite a bit, or at least known that I would never be noticed by my interests. I've been in love twice, and just recently ended up losing all traces of even friendship with my second love. My necrophilia surfaced a little more than a month later, so it might be a consequence of that, I don't know. I think maybe the reason I don't find female corpses attractive is because my favorite feature of women is large breasts and I suppose I prefer 'em warm and soft.
I'm generally obsessed with anything morbid or grotesque, so that may play a part in the interest overall, I can't really be sure.

I don't find the dead morbid. I find them natural, and sacred. I do prefer fresh corpses though, and I don't let the living get close to me anymore. I'll never forget my first dead love, his spirit still visits me to this day, but I fear he's fading away, ready to start a new life. I'm so not ready to let him go yet...

I suppose that's where our views differ then. I don't view anything as sacred, but, then again, I'm a cynical pessimistic misanthrope.

Lmao I'm sure you're not the only one. I guess part of it has to do with how I was brought up, I learned to love the dead early on.

necrofairy wrote:I don't find the dead morbid. I find them natural, and sacred.

Spot on, especially the sacred bit.

You don't have to be a necrophiliac to regard the dead as sacred. A number of local authorities in the UK are encouraging 'adopt a grave' schemes, and they're proving quite popular.

http://www.richmond.gov.uk/home/community_and_living/deaths/burial/cemeteries/adopt_a_grave.htm

I think it's a brilliant and really lovely idea.

I already look after FS's grave, of course, and I know she appreciates it. Most of the graves in her part of the cemetery are forgotten and uncared for, apart from one other which is regularly mowed and always has new flowers, although I've never seen whoever tends to it.

AWWWWW, there is my baby! Where are you staying hidden!

Taking care of a grave sounds like an interesting and nice thing to do, and I'm not just saying that because of my fascination with what's in it. I remember one day I was out of town with some relatives for the day, just driving around and visiting places, and we happened upon the graveyard where my great grandfather had been buried.
None of us had been there for a long time, so we decided to go visit it, but we had no idea where it was and ended up wandering around for a long time. I came across one headstone shaped like an anvil and hammer sitting on a tree trunk and thought it was the coolest thing. I used to have the inscription memorized, but I've long since forgotten.
If we didn't live so far away, I might take care of it, but it's about an hour away. Perhaps next time we're over there, I might leave some flowers.