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by meik » Mon Apr 04, 2011 10:33 am
Hi there.
I have come to realise i have an almost exclusive paraphilia, in that i cannot get off sexually to anything but the image of a woman's mouth. The only source of pornography that shows this enough for me is female vore, or giantess videos. I have no real wish to be eaten by anyone, and the dominance themes in giantess video's actually turns me off completely. I've tried watching regular pornography but i find that if there is a man in the video i get turned off, which is most videos. I do find women's breasts attractive but i cannot get off to them alone, and must always be able to see her mouth, preferably open.
Is there anything i can do to wean myself off of this, as i find it interrupts my sex life, and can be very embarrassing having to explain my paraphilia to every partner, as they are not always as open-minded as i'd like. Do most guys not mind having other guys in their pornography, or what do normal people think about when they watch porn that helps them get off?
Any advice would be great thanks.
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by HereComesTrouble » Sat Apr 09, 2011 1:37 am
POrn is something to think over. I'm no good at giving advice but I'll try. Watching or doing anything to do with porn for guys is totally normal. You shouldn't worry about it.If its a problem you can seek help like seeinga therapist. By the way I'm not that good at advice but to give you a little advice better hen no advice a all.hope I helped some
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by day2 » Sun Apr 10, 2011 10:50 pm
hi , ive just got this account made just to reply to ya ! im a 22 y/o straight male , a medical student , thought i would try to help as i had the same issue with having a guy in any sort of way ( even a guys voice ) in a porn movie , i used to be into bdsm as well , i'm almost 'cured' now , a year ago ive realized that i need to do something about my fetish as i couldnt get it off wth a girl once . It would be great to see this work for you :
the first thing you need to know is that paraphilias are termed arousal disorders , though most of us would continue with it untill orgasm ; paraphilias are most essential in the arousal process . A good start would be having two movies ! one would be related to your fetish and the other of a SOLO girl ! you would switch to the solo movie near orgasm , its all about practice . the other way that you must use concurrently (on the next day lets say ) is to try to do it with a movie that you consider midway between your highly pleasuring fetish and a "normal" i guess you know what im saying .
many steps remain ahead , its a long way but the best thing about it is that you would notice the difference soon , its all about practice and NOT having relapses nto old stuff !
let me know how it goes
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