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by **My Sick Brain** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 12:55 am

Butterfly Faerie wrote:I don't think they'll do that, but if those thoughts are there eventually there could be urges.

Are you 100% sure you'd never rape a girl or molest a child?
Honestly ?

Yes, I am 100 percent sure. I have a real fear of sex. I'm almost thirty and still a virgin. So, I doubt I'll be forcing myself on anyone any time soon.

Well, that is quite normal for just about any human being who appreciates the female form. Secondary sexual characteristics and fertility being what turns you on.

Pedophilia would be attributed or diagnosed for a person who also likes prepubescent girls and prefers them to older ones. Now there are debates pertaining to how common this is, but it causes no harm in and of itself. There are monumental taboos and socially-prescribed problems for those who have sex with minors, especially before puberty.

by **My Sick Brain** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:15 am

Butterfly Faerie wrote:I've heard that a lot though that's the thing, they say one thing then they molest a child. We just had someone say exactly what you are, and then openly admitted to sexually assaulting his niece.

Well, I can honestly say I've never molested a child. I've never even felt the urge to actually do such a thing.

by **My Sick Brain** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:20 am

fm.martinson2000 wrote:
I do find myself sexually attracted to some adolescent girls.

Well, that is quite normal for just about any human being who appreciates the female form. Secondary sexual characteristics and fertility being what turns you on.

Pedophilia would be attributed or diagnosed for a person who also likes prepubescent girls and prefers them to older ones. Now there are debates pertaining to how common this is, but it causes no harm in and of itself. There are monumental taboos and socially-prescribed problems for those who have sex with minors, especially before puberty.

No, I like women too. But I am especially fond of girls between the ages of twelve and fourteen.

by **fm.martinson2000** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:26 am

Sounds like hebephilia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hebephilia) or the so-called "lolita complex". This is quite common, is not a clinical disorder and given that you have attractions to legal-age girls and women, should not impair your social functioning.

Maybe coming to terms with these attractions as a normal part of your sexuality will help you see adolescent girls as sensual human beings, not as objects for a rape fantasy (nothing harmful in and of iteslf)...?

by **Butterfly Faerie** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:28 am

I still think even though you are not comfortable with it, you need to bring it up with your T.

I don't believe that the thoughts are normal as fm.martinson2000 says... the attraction is not normal at all.

by **fm.martinson2000** » Thu Jan 08, 2009 1:32 am

Faerie - whilst as a Gay, I have very little interest, I gather that a very large proportion of "straight" pornographic literature centres on eroticising of-age women and fantasy characters as adolescent girls. Many nonwestern cultures past and present have celebrated and permitted the sexuality of girls from at least the age of menarche - that is natural viability. I have not seen any convincing argument that would suggest our prohibitive culture can simply overcome years of evolution - culminating in normal attractions to viable girls.

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