Wtf am I?

Is it possible not to be hetrosexual, or homosexual but just a fetishist?

I mean I'm 17 now, and for the most part I've like girls for the most part, even though thinking about "just them" isn't "enough" for . . .

When I first became "active" I found myself liking shirts. I don't really know why, but I think it might go back to when I was about 11 and was staring at some girls chest... A few years later I started to like BDSM. Over the past 6 months I've fantasised about boys who dress like girls... I don't really find the other first a turn on anymore (certainly not the shirt one). I've felt like a total freak for these feelings forever.

I also have other emotional problems . . . I shy away from social situations, and I obsess over things. Erm....sorry if that seemed a bit wanderous, but I just don't get this thing. WTF is my problem?

You sound like if you have a problem it's not your sexual attraction.

It's possible to have a fetish that acts as a unique trigger to sexual stimulation but remember if it doesn't cause you stress or emotional problems of some sort then it's not classified as a paraphilia, just a benign fetish.

If it becomes a problem or already is, ie your preferences are changing in such a manner you're afraid you might never "settle down," prohibiting fruitful relationships, you may wish to seek generalized psychological help to straighten you out into whatever fits best for you. Or maybe to just become comfortable with who you are!

aries wrote:
If it becomes a problem or already is, ie your preferences are changing in such a manner you're afraid you might never "settle down," prohibiting fruitful relationships,

Well I guress that is the main issue. i dont mind liking girls with cocks really, id just like to stay put longh enough . . .


Thank you for the replies. they are valuble to my thought process.

peace

- Guy Debord (I'm dead now btw. lol)