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by Mustelidae » Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:33 pm
So were these gay men or 'boy lovers'?
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by cumulusjames » Fri Feb 20, 2015 2:50 pm
Many of them were straight or in the closet. But 16 is the age of consent here. Would someone who is attracted to a 16 yr old really be unatracted to a 14 yr old?
The schoolboy fantasy runs throughout gay twink porn. There is even a site called twink academy which is set up to give the impression of a boarding school with the models in school uniforms and everything.
I don't believe most who watch the kind of twink porn on the free tube sites would be turned off by watching a 14 yr old. The purpose of twinks is to look as boy like as possible. I think it is possible to say those who seek out twink porn have pedarast attractions whether they act on them or not.
Interestingly, most the CP is post pubescent and tends to be mid teens. A vast quantity is self produced too (webcam stuff).
I think maybe much of this stuff is outside the realm of child abuse and paedophilia. I think the issues are complex and skewed by the fact it gets lumped in with child abuse and paedophilia.
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by Mustelidae » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:01 pm
No I imagine they wouldn't but would those same men be attracted to large, hairy muscle-bound men with square jaws and deep voices? You don't see many heterosexual men looking for manly women.
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by cumulusjames » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:12 pm
Hunks and bares are also catergorys. There are youths on grindr who specify "daddy" or for older or 30+. Pedarasty is not a one way street as people would have you believe. A friend I knew into his mid 20 began coming on the main gay website in the UK when he was 15. Hunks were his type, and that's who he went with.
Why is there no data available in the west from places where the age of consent is 14?
For a thing to be science you need a control group, testability and it has to be falsifiable. You also need a statistically significant dataset (a study of 70 for example is not statistically significant and tells you bugger all).
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by Mustelidae » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:21 pm
It's probably just me being ignorant about homosexuality. I mean in heterosexual porn there is the teen and the milf categories so it's all the same.
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by cumulusjames » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:35 pm
I don't know.
I can say that at one time one of the main papers who now love to promote the idea that paedophilia includes up to fully developed 18 yr olds used to have 16 yr olds topless in underwear on page 3. The gay age of consent got lowered to 16 then the porn laws got raised to 18. Make of that what you will.
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by Mustelidae » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:49 pm
I'm not gonna pretend to know what the message of that post is. I keep reading it but I've got nothing
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by cumulusjames » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:51 pm
Mustelidae wrote:I'm not gonna pretend to know what the message of that post is. I keep reading it but I've got nothing

I'm extremely depressed at the moment, my thinking is not always clear even to me. Cognitive decline or something.
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by Mustelidae » Fri Feb 20, 2015 3:54 pm
I'm sure it is clear I'm just not intelligent enough to see the message.
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by cumulusjames » Fri Feb 20, 2015 4:22 pm
Mustelidae wrote:I'm sure it is clear I'm just not intelligent enough to see the message.
Oh no I was having a sort of brain fog. I think I meant to be making some point but it got away from me.
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