Release with another pedophile - would it help?

Do you guys think talking about and orgasming with another person who has the thoughts we do might help, or would it just make our thoughts darker?

I think I might know one or two non-exclusive, non-offending pedophiles - I can tell by the way they talk about certain things or look at certain persons. Would sharing thoughts and fantasies be okay or would it do more harm than good? What are your experiences?

I've always wanted to share my fantasies with other people, especially other pedophiles,but most aren't comfortable with that, apparently.

I don't know if it would help you, but I would look at it like this: if it started doing the opposite then just stop. If you need that release then try it. You won't know unless you do.

Chessplayer wrote:I've always wanted to share my fantasies with other people, especially other pedophiles,but most aren't comfortable with that, apparently.

I get that people are uncomfortable with it. It makes me a bit uncomfortable too. But I think us pedophiles need to figure out a way to meet up with each other. I don't want to be alone in all this mess. And an internet forum isn't enough company

I've talked (through email, etc.) with other pedophiles about my fantasies before. I certainly haven't found it harmful, nor have I noticed my thoughts getting meaningfully darker. It's actually incredibly relaxing getting that straight confirmation that you aren't alone. To be able to just shoot the $#%^ and talk about how hot a girl is like it were the most normal thing in the world.

I'm far more restrained when I do that than I'd really like to be, but the constant worry that I'm being played or targeted doesn't really go away. Childhood bullying combined with adult social ostracism isn't a good combination for letting you relax your guard around other people.

Still, even as guarded as I am, it certainly is an enjoyable experience when I can get it.

As to engaging physically with a fellow pedophile I found attractive, I can't see where that would hurt either. I haven't tried it, but I certainly wouldn't be averse.

I get what you all mean. I have a buddy, who through talking about innocent, non-sexual things, has said things that led me to believe he has some of the same thoughts. The way he used certain words or described innocent experiences was definitely erotic. If I were to engage in such, I wouldn't want it to purely be of a sexual nature, but also about support and growth.

Randi wrote:I don't know if it would help you, but I would look at it like this: if it started doing the opposite then just stop. If you need that release then try it. You won't know unless you do.

Randi - totally get what you mean as well as how experimentations within boundaries help. You never find out until you give yourself a chance, I suppose. Thanks!

From my own experience (though I'm not a pedophile. I'm into torture and murder), discussing your darkest desires with others of a similar mindset increases the urge to act on them because, after awhile, you start viewing the person you're sharing your fantasies with as a potential partner-in-crime. It just makes temptation that much harder to resist.

Dark Soul wrote:From my own experience (though I'm not a pedophile. I'm into torture and murder), discussing your darkest desires with others of a similar mindset increases the urge to act on them because, after awhile, you start viewing the person you're sharing your fantasies with as a potential partner-in-crime. It just makes temptation that much harder to resist.

Similar experience here, except for me it sometimes makes me want to invite them to come help me dig up a grave or something.
I mean, I enjoy the fantasies but I don't want my temptations to be quite that strong.

For me, when I talk about my fantasies the excitement becomes stronger, but not really the desire to act on them. I think it excites me to talk about them because then someone else knows about them, but I don't really see other people as a prospective "partner".