Question for Non exclusive Pedophiles

I'm a pedophile in my early 20s, and I would say that I'm attracted to all ages. My favorites just happen to be very young. The girl I have sort of a crush on right now is a few years younger than me, though she also happens to be pedo, and has the look and personality of a younger girl, which is certainly a plus for me. I've dated older girls as well, and been pretty happy. Every person is different, and a girl/woman doesn't have to seem young to be attractive to me.

Chessplayer wrote:Is this question open to nonexclusive homosexual/ female nonexclusive heterosexuals as well?

Well, my current girlfriend is really short and has a childish look to her face, and sometimes acts like a child, though she can also be very mature if she needs to be. She's also really cuddly.

As for my preference, I'd say they fall into three categories. First one is definitely the child like teens/adults (I'm including teenagers because I'm 17). In this category, I look at girls about my age, perhaps a couple of years older or younger that are my height or shorter, have a small chest and face, and tend to giggle a lot. (I'm also into petplay, so it helps if they like pretending that they're a kitten/puppy. ).

I am definitely someone to which the phrase "treat others the way you wish to be treated" holds truth to. Case in point, category two is the opposite of category one. In this category, I envision a woman several years older than me with much more experience sexually. She would also be significantly taller than me, have developed "womanly" features, and would be dominating and in control, but in a gentle, forgiving, motherly way. (It also definitely helps if she likes me being a kitten and wants to be my owner. ^^)

The third category... well, I'm not certain if it really qualifies as a category, as this is almost purely sexual (where the other two have VERY strong emotional attachments), and only comes to me in fantasy. Basically, this type of girl/woman is also domineering, but in an aggressive, teasing way. This type gets pleasure from "torturing" me sexually. The physical features for this type are not that important, (though it'd be really weird if she looked like a kid.) Also, she's usually accompanied with either another woman from her own category, a woman from category two, a man with similar characteristics (oh yeah, probably should have mentioned earlier that I'm bisexual), or any combination of these.

Btw, I love your username. Why'd you pick it?

Thank you for your reply. I haven't looked at this thread for a while, last time I checked no one had answered.
Yes this question is open to all.
As for you question about my username. I picked it because I'm like the most curious person ever and ask a million questions, especially questions not many other people would ask. I get teased sometimes that i ask so many questions.
The kitten part is part is also my personality. I'm just like a kitten, cuddly, soft, sweet, playful, and cute as some say, and of coarse, Curious!

-- Wed Jan 07, 2015 7:19 am --

Thanks to everyone who replied. It was interesting, you all had something a little different that you liked and didn't like. Wasn't what I would have guessed at all.

mrms99 wrote:For me, I am not sure it is just physical characteristics alone.

Yes, I like younger looking women, small and petite. I like younger girls best around 12-16, so that look works with me. But I also like blonde, busty women because the first girl I had sex with in high school was like that.

But there is a look someone gives you that indicates interest. If you pay attention, you learn to spot it, a combination of body language, eye contact, lowering of eyes, etc. That tends to get my interest regardless of body type.

But all together, I would rather have a woman who is very very tolerant of my own sexual kinks, and is willing to play along. I think that is what would work best for me, again, over her look.

I just wanted to chime in on something you said about body language and eyes.
I often smile slightly and lower my eyelids at men that look at me, but for me it's just because I'm being polite if they have smiled at me, and it's also a shy thing to lower my eyes.
Doesn't mean I like the person. Maybe it's different for other women, not sure.

Curious Kitten wrote:

Chessplayer wrote:

Thank you for your reply. I haven't looked at this thread for a while, last time I checked no one had answered.
Yes this question is open to all.
As for you question about my username. I picked it because I'm like the most curious person ever and ask a million questions, especially questions not many other people would ask. I get teased sometimes that i ask so many questions.
The kitten part is part is also my personality. I'm just like a kitten, cuddly, soft, sweet, playful, and cute as some say, and of coarse, Curious!

-- Wed Jan 07, 2015 7:19 am --

Thanks to everyone who replied. It was interesting, you all had something a little different that you liked and didn't like. Wasn't what I would have guessed at all.

Awwwww! ^^

(I believe you have made a friend, CK. XD)

Hi everyone. Wanted to respond here even though I am not a pedophile!! I believe a pedophile is someone who touches children inappropriately. I am certain that I would never do such a thing and have never! I'm 42 and have def changed in my sexual desires and very recently have been on this preteen model/bikini/feet addiction. I just find little girls 10-16 who are posing sexy and are dressed sexy to be an uncontrollable guilty pleasure. I find myself in awe over their natural pretty faces and yes even their under developed bodies. I think because I think its sexy but cant understand why, it becomes hotter to me. Whenever I masturbate to these girls, the orgasm is off the charts. Alot of the girls do shoots in their underwear and spread their legs for the camera and it just drives me wild. I dont think this a something I can just stop enjoying and in reality all I'm doing is looking at girls and always clothed. Everyone has their freaky turn ons. Who is to say right or wrong.

Hockeyfan1 wrote:Hi everyone. Wanted to respond here even though I am not a pedophile!! I believe a pedophile is someone who touches children inappropriately. I am certain that I would never do such a thing and have never! I'm 42 and have def changed in my sexual desires and very recently have been on this preteen model/bikini/feet addiction. I just find little girls 10-16 who are posing sexy and are dressed sexy to be an uncontrollable guilty pleasure.

I don't mean to cause offense but I'm afraid that what you believe is incorrect. The definition of a pedophile is someone who is attracted to children, especially pre-pubescent children regardless of whether they have had physical contact with children.

You said you like children 10-16 which suggests that (if you like adults too) you are more specifically an inclusive hebephile (because you like pubertal children). There's no shame in a sexual attraction as we can't help them.