You never forget your first time

by **warforged** » Sun Oct 12, 2014 3:22 pm

First time was at 26 with the woman who eventually became my wife. The first time was fun and not as awkward as I had feared--but I also realized that I had been putting *way* too much pressure on the concept of my "first time".

Jimjustjim wrote:The "first time" sometimes isn't that simple. My first sexual experience was when I was 5, with a 4 year old cousin (at the direction of a 14-year-old aunt). My first experience at oral was with a boy my own age when I was 7. The first intercourse I had was with my grandfather, when I was 8. The first intercourse with a girl was with my 10-year-old step-sister, when I was 15. Which one really counts as my "first". Clearly I haven't forgotten about any of them.

Have you wondered as to where your sexual attraction might have originated? It does seem likely that you were sexualised much earlier than most, and hence perhaps leading to paedophilia. Also, do you not have any considerations that you sexually abused a 10-year-old girl, even if she enjoyed it, such that 'your' problem just spread?

My first sexual experience was abuse and I did re-experience it for many years after.

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