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by balustrade » Wed May 07, 2014 3:38 am
hi again, i have some more issues im trying to sort out.... i spend time on some forums where people will say objectifying / degrading things abt the women there attracted to and share pics.... and i can get aroused by this kind of talk but in actual practice i would hate to treat a partner like that unless she wanted it.... and i hate actual sexual abuse and wouldnt dream of raping someone, but im still turned on by the talk.....
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by crystal_richardson_ » Wed May 07, 2014 6:13 am
sounds like you enjoy voyeurism.
do you enjoy watching people in general or is it limited to this activity in particular?
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by balustrade » Wed May 07, 2014 6:57 am
a little. its definitely the detached aspect of it so it does sound a bit more like voyeurism then active sadism - other peoples fantasies/fantasy descriptions turn me on, & have been turned on by candid photos in the past but im struggling with the ethical issues surrounding it
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