My JB (Jailbait) problem

I'm 30yo now. I've had OCD since I was eighteen or nineteen years old and it started of with intrusive thoughts which are sexual and towards younger children, I know my intrusive thoughts are wrong and I know not to act on them, I don't get urges to act on them, I hate them and they disgust me.

My intrusive thoughts are towards under 12 year olds, at least I think they are as I'm not sure if I get intrusive thoughts with 12 to 15 year olds, although most of me thinks that I don't as I don't have any memories of intrusive thoughts towards 12 to 15 year olds. Every time I've fapped to 12 to 15 year olds, it never had nothing to do with my intrusive thoughts. I've other problems with OCD, which I'll not mention.

Before my JB problem, I used to watch adult porn. I developed a problem with JB around 2010 or 2011 for females aged 12 to 15 years old, I like non-sexual/sexual non-nude/nude pictures and videos and I never get tempted/urges or anything to go out and pick up 12 to 15 year olds, my problem started of with 15 year olds working it's way down to 12 year olds. I'm not sure if my OCD has anything to do with this problem, most of me thinks it doesn't.

A while back, I started to think that 12yo's were not children and that they can consent, I'm not sure if that was just an excuse which turned into a belief or if I actually believed that at first. At times I've been unsure if there children and can consent, but most of the time I've believed there not children and can consent, but now I'm really unsure if there children whilst I still think they can consent.

I'm unsure if I want to quit JB or just calm it down.

Please help me.

can someone please delete this thread as I've made mistakes on it, thank you.

Hello, I'm back and I'm glad that this thread was never deleted .

It's got worse since the last time, the age has dropped to 11yo's, so I now have a problem with 11 - 15yo females, don't get me wrong, I'm still interested in 16 - 17yo's and legal adults (18yos +) but no where near like I used to be, I hardly ever masturbate to adult porn, most of the time I masturbate to underagers ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . I forgot to say the age of consent where I live is 16.

I'm not sure if I'm a peadophile (most of me thinks that I'm not), hebophile and a ephebophile or if I'm a hebophile and ephebophile or it it's something else, I want to stop this for good and get back to the way I used to be.

I like anime, sometimes I'm attracted to characters 16 years old and older, but most of the time it's been characters under 16 years old. The youngest anime character that I've been attracted to might have been 7 years old, although she didn't look it, the wiki for the anime says her age is unknown and one site said her age was about 7 years old. I only started liking underage anime characters just under a year ago or maybe longer.

Being honest I've hardly masturbated to anime, my biggest problem is real people and not cartoon characters.

Having a problem/addiction like this is $#%^, I've tried quitting a few times and failed, it's really hard and I end up doing it again, I want to quit masturbating to underagers for good and get on with my life and be the way I used to be.

My advice to people who are into masturbating to underagers is STOP IT and my advice to people who are tempted to masturbate to an underager is DON'T DO IT.

What studies are available show that attraction to pubescent and pre-pubescent girls by males is overwhelmingly normal.

Personally I wouldn't bite on the consent issue, consentism is already a rationalization so arguing against or about the concept just drags anyone deeper into insanity.

The problem lies it seems to me mostly with your attitudes towards your girl-thoughts and behaviors: i.e. guilt. There are two kinds of guilt: rational and irrational. Rational guilt helps us to correct our actions and then we move on. Irrational guilt tells us something we are doing is wrong but it is actually not, or we continue to feel guilty about something we cannot do anything about. Since it's common to look at young girls and masturbate and the only person it's really hurting is you since it's depriving you of a real-life sex-life, maybe that guilt is irrational? But since looking at nude teens in sexual positions could cause legal problems even if time will eventually debunk pedophilia-taboo that kind of guilt would be rational because it's warning you of a real-world risk of harm. I'm not saying looking at nude pictures of young teens is bad, or you are bad, I'm saying it might be dangerous. Little girls might enjoy posting their pictures on the Net and benefit from the pride and affection they receive from men, meanwhile, it may be illegal in your country so you might want to check that very carefully.

+1 what he said --^

People are hard wired to look at and for virile people to mate with and as such men and women the world over find themselves dealing with thoughts of younger people. Whether that be above or below the AOC in their region. I've oft researched the subject and found that a lot of European countries have an AOC of 14, and one or two as little as 12. For my country it is 16, and other than he USA is actually one of the highest in the world, wih one country even concluding it to be "the age of first menstuation" although local bylaws in various regions of said country may state a set age that contradict the national ruling on the subject. So do not worry about just thinking/fantasizing, these are not crimes and are resoundingly common. As long as you stay on the correct side of the law there is nothing to feel guilty about.

Yep, 'jailbait' is called that for a reason. They're attractive to normal men, but they're under the age of consent. I find it incredible that any rational, intelligent human being could assume that the age of consent equals an age of acceptability for attraction.

I have finally stopped my underage addiction. I shall never repeat this mistake.