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by ValerieC » Sun Nov 24, 2013 11:17 pm
Google led me here, and thought might be able to get some information on the topic. I have two teenage daughters and they have friends round all the time, and in last year or so I have noticed my lingerie seems to be going on a walk about. Problem is, not only do I have no idea who it is, as it could be any of a few male friends of my daughters, or friends of my husbands, who are also round often. Problem is also, even if I did know who it was, what is there to say! Any ideas? It's not so much the horror of the act, but it's f**king expensive to say the least and I don't want to keep losing them.
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by ElKahn » Mon Nov 25, 2013 12:38 am
ValerieC wrote:Google led me here, and thought might be able to get some information on the topic. I have two teenage daughters and they have friends round all the time, and in last year or so I have noticed my lingerie seems to be going on a walk about. Problem is, not only do I have no idea who it is, as it could be any of a few male friends of my daughters, or friends of my husbands, who are also round often. Problem is also, even if I did know who it was, what is there to say! Any ideas? It's not so much the horror of the act, but it's f**king expensive to say the least and I don't want to keep losing them.
Excuse me? Do you need information about paraphilias? How could this help you?
You think that maybe whoever steals them has some kind of fetish involving lingerie?
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by platonic » Mon Nov 25, 2013 12:57 am
Someone has an undy fetish, get a Spycam(s) and plan an extended operation.
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by ValerieC » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:03 am
platonic wrote:Someone has an undy fetish, get a Spycam(s) and plan an extended operation.
The extended part is off putting, but even when/if I find out who is taking them, then what?
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by Crysimmal » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:07 am
"Stop stealing my underwear, it's costing me a lot of money". That's what you say. The rest depends on how mindful you are of who is where, when, in your home.
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by platonic » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:16 am
Well I guess its the time-cost of extended spycam'ing vs the cost of vanishing underwear.
Well. Depending on who it is, you can warn 'em off or have a discreet word. The fear of public humiliation will end their knicker rampage.
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by KevinG31 » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:23 am
Are you one of these mothers who has much sexier clothing than your daughters? Guys who snoop around will notice that kind of thing.
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by ValerieC » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:25 am
KevinG31 wrote:Are you one of these mothers who has much sexier clothing than your daughters? Guys who snoop around will notice that kind of thing.
But what do you mean, guys who snoop around will notice this kind of thing.
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by KevinG31 » Mon Nov 25, 2013 1:49 am
ValerieC wrote:KevinG31 wrote:Are you one of these mothers who has much sexier clothing than your daughters? Guys who snoop around will notice that kind of thing.
But what do you mean, guys who snoop around will notice this kind of thing.
A guy who is into the sexy outfits that women wear will want to compare the type of clothes your daughters wear with the type of clothes you wear. If he discovers that your clothes are sexier he will choose to steal those. Since it is just panties that are being stolen I suspect that he is using them to masturbate. If it was more than panties and you noticed other clothes missing then you would have a case of a full on crossdresser who is stealing your clothes to wear them.
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by ValerieC » Mon Nov 25, 2013 2:03 am
KevinG31 wrote:ValerieC wrote:KevinG31 wrote:Are you one of these mothers who has much sexier clothing than your daughters? Guys who snoop around will notice that kind of thing.
But what do you mean, guys who snoop around will notice this kind of thing.
A guy who is into the sexy outfits that women wear will want to compare the type of clothes your daughters wear with the type of clothes you wear. If he discovers that your clothes are sexier he will choose to steal those. Since it is just panties that are being stolen I suspect that he is using them to masturbate. If it was more than panties and you noticed other clothes missing then you would have a case of a full on crossdresser who is stealing your clothes to wear them.
Yeah, I highly doubt the later, only bras and thongs have gone. What is more likely, daughters friends or husbands? I'm not sure which I would be more comfortable with.
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