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Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby Neverfeelaccepted » Thu Nov 14, 2013 9:01 pm

I am a boylover. Love seeing boys sing and dance.

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There is plenty more. BTW I don't care if some of you people out there get these videos deleted. I already have them downloaded.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby HesDeltanCaptain » Thu Nov 14, 2013 9:20 pm

Can't view Youtube, FB, Twitter or anything else kinda new. Old pc and Win98 is incompatible. But I can imagine.

Right and wrong are relative assesments. What's wrong may not be illegal, yet still objectionable just as what's right may well be illegal. Assuming the videos contain no nudity or violence and is simply boys singing, and you get sexually arroused from it and then masturbate to it, though legal, it's still kinda iffy. Is in the grey area between though so not willing to pass judgement on whether it's right or wrong.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby Neverfeelaccepted » Thu Nov 14, 2013 9:25 pm

HesDeltanCaptain wrote:Can't view Youtube, FB, Twitter or anything else kinda new. Old pc and Win98 is incompatible. But I can imagine.

Right and wrong are relative assesments. What's wrong may not be illegal, yet still objectionable just as what's right may well be illegal. Assuming the videos contain no nudity or violence and is simply boys singing, and you get sexually arroused from it and then masturbate to it, though legal, it's still kinda iffy. Is in the grey area between though so not willing to pass judgement on whether it's right or wrong.


I never masturbated to a boy before ever. These videos just make me happy.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby HesDeltanCaptain » Thu Nov 14, 2013 9:28 pm

Minus any sexual component, there's nothing wrong with it.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby simgiran » Fri Nov 15, 2013 12:03 am

No, it's not wrong. Even if you masturbated to those videos, there would be nothing wrong about that. You wouldn't harm anyone by that. But it wouldn't be a good idea to go around saying that you masturbate to this and that video.

I like videos with boys too, especially those with singing boys.

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Well, quite a lot of links, but I hope it's OK. I think it's important to show, that being a pedophile doesn't mean just getting sexually aroused by boys. That a pedophile watching videos of children isn't synonymous with pedophile watching child porn. Etc.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby Neverfeelaccepted » Fri Nov 15, 2013 12:06 am

Thanks.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby HesDeltanCaptain » Fri Nov 15, 2013 8:57 am

Good rule of thumb is "if you wouldn't want family or friends finding out, it's wrong."
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby SpecialCuteHugs » Fri Nov 15, 2013 2:07 pm

If you justifiably believe that it isn't hindering your life in any significant way, and it doesn't make you more likely to harm a child, then there is nothing wrong with it.

I have a small photo album on my iPad of young girls from TV and movies, who I think are cute. Just ordinary pictures from totally safe websites; smiles, cute glances, hugs, etc. 90% of the pictures are just close-ups on the face. I look through it sometimes when I'm feeling down, and its a nice pick-me-up. Since it doesn't intrude on my life, I don't see why I should stop. I have tons of other photo albums too; landscapes, My Little Pony fan art, outer space, Minecraft, etc. I like happy and fantastical pictures, that's just me.

Bottom line is there's nothing wrong with looking at pictures or video unless somebody is being harmed in process. (Including the "somebody" in the pictures or video, I should add) Same rule that applies to pretty much everything else in life.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby Arik » Fri Nov 15, 2013 2:39 pm

There is one video I find comforting when I am not in a good mood. Since there is a teenage girl in the video, I may not be allowed to post it.
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Re: Is it wrong that I like YouTube videos like this?

Postby Musicman » Fri Nov 15, 2013 5:11 pm

HesDeltanCaptain wrote:Can't view Youtube, FB, Twitter or anything else kinda new. Old pc and Win98 is incompatible.


WHY?! :shock:. At least tell us it's SE!

HesDeltanCaptain wrote:Good rule of thumb is "if you wouldn't want family or friends finding out, it's wrong."


I'm going to have to disagree with you there. At this moment, I don't want my family or friends to know that I'm bisexual (leaning gay), or that I no longer believe in the religion that I was brought up with. That doesn't mean I'm in the wrong.
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