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by 87gurl » Sun Nov 10, 2013 11:39 pm
Ive talked to many male pedophiles, and the concept is the same. We are just attracted to them, and that's it. A pedophile is a pedophile.
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by Arik » Mon Nov 11, 2013 3:10 am
87gurl wrote:Ive talked to many male pedophiles, and the concept is the same. We are just attracted to them, and that's it. A pedophile is a pedophile.
I guess there is a lot about pedophilia I do not understand.
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by Gerste » Tue Nov 19, 2013 1:24 am
OK, judging from this thread, it seems that there are female's attracted to little girls. And the media suggests there are females attracted to teen boys (maybe). But I don't trust or believe the media. The question now is: is there any female here attracted to little boys, or is that just an exclusively male thing?
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by wifeinwatercolours » Tue Nov 19, 2013 12:45 pm
Gerste wrote:OK, judging from this thread, it seems that there are female's attracted to little girls. And the media suggests there are females attracted to teen boys (maybe). But I don't trust or believe the media. The question now is: is there any female here attracted to little boys, or is that just an exclusively male thing?
i don't know if anyone
here is, but i've definitely seen them before.
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by airwolffan » Tue Nov 19, 2013 1:29 pm
Arik wrote:87gurl wrote:Ive talked to many male pedophiles, and the concept is the same. We are just attracted to them, and that's it. A pedophile is a pedophile.
I guess there is a lot about pedophilia I do not understand.
Indeed there is.
Anyone can be a paedophile, anyone can be a child molester. anyone can be a rapist, anyone can be a murderer. You cant say one type of person cannot be anyone one of those.
One part of your life does not define you as a person. Said by a very womderful human being i have had the pleasure to know in my life.
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by Gerste » Wed Nov 20, 2013 9:06 pm
wifeinwatercolours wrote:Gerste wrote:OK, judging from this thread, it seems that there are female's attracted to little girls. And the media suggests there are females attracted to teen boys (maybe). But I don't trust or believe the media. The question now is: is there any female here attracted to little boys, or is that just an exclusively male thing?
i don't know if anyone
here is, but i've definitely seen them before.
You know, I've been coming across a lot more of that lately, even on the paraphilia forum. Maybe it's just that more pedophiles of a particular type seek help. I shouldn't be so hasty in my conclusions. This particular thread is worded in such a way as to elicit a singular response.
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by HesDeltanCaptain » Wed Nov 20, 2013 9:11 pm
Since most pedophiles will be consumers of child erotica (porn, legal forms of erotic stimulation, Youtube videos, etc.) and most visual arts erotica is made by men, for men, it stands to reason the reason the impression is most pedophiles are men is simply due to the fact that most illegal child pornography will be such that it's catering to men. But going back to Sappho in ancient Greece, women have been pedophilic all along.
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by Gerste » Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:16 pm
HesDeltanCaptain wrote: But going back to Sappho in ancient Greece, women have been pedophilic all along.
Interesting reference. Do you have any sources for that? I'm not challenging it. I'm curious.
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by HesDeltanCaptain » Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:17 pm
As often as Sappho comes up in some circles, interestingly actual surviving poetry is hard to find. Nonetheless, I do have a site doing just that, will msg it since it's off-topic.
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