Nature of pedophilia, and pedo culture

Most people would classify me as a pedo. My attraction is primarily romantic and emotional, and barely sexual. My feelings are like a teenage girls crush. Ask a normal person what a pedo would do if left alone with a girl, and they would freak out. Coming from one, I would be happiest hugging her. Taking her to the movies. Talking with her. Showing up for her dance recital. Laughing, smiling, dancing, and everything that normal couples get to do. Is anyone else like this?

Another question to pedos, who are you besides your attraction? We are the most hated group on earth but have no voice. What media do you like, and what media is there about us?

I personally don't understand how an adult could be emotionally attracted to minors. I could never find myself attracted to someone who's so immature, or mentally undeveloped. My attraction is purely physical.

Society hates us. I find it best to just fit in with the crowd.

Hm... I'ld say that my attraction is balanced on sexual and emotional desire. which to me makes sense as they are more 'innocent', which I find desirable. as for media about pedophilia, I dont know too much. I like alot of artforms and math and science. I view them as different ways to represent the same things.

In the pedo community we often use the term 'girl-lover' (or boy-lover) in place of 'pedophile' or 'hebephile.' Those are the prefered terms, especially for people like me whose emotional attraction to girls is powerful.

When I heard the term girl-lover I knew it described me perfectly. Honestly I don't even like the term 'straight' to refer to heterosexuals because the word has no humility or passion whatsoever. So many guys who don't even really love women or girls use that as a cheap way to let you know they're not "sissies." So even if I was not a girl-lover I might have used the term woman-lover.

ReVamp wrote:I personally don't understand how an adult could be emotionally attracted to minors. I could never find myself attracted to someone who's so immature, or mentally undeveloped. My attraction is purely physical.

Society hates us. I find it best to just fit in with the crowd.

In ways they are immature, but what really makes me fall in love is someone's attitude towards life and others, and some kids have great attitudes even if they aren't great at expressing them with words.

I'd also love it if a girl just did sweet little things like pick me flowers, or take me dancing, or nibble on my ear lobes or lips. Those sort of things cause emotional excitement and a feeling of closeness, they are just as much part of romance as having deep conversations.

One of the things I like about children is their honesty. They tend not to be as manipulative or aloof as "grown ups." They're also more in touch with their feelings and are easier to talk to. Also, having worked in retail for more than ten years, I'd have to say that most "minors" are far more mature than most "adults."

Oh, and media wise, a lot of GL's I used to talk to back in the day really really really liked the movie "Lawn Dogs."

The time that I have spent with children I have loved the times where we have held hands in public or went to a movie together and cuddled with each other. I feel so bad that I went further than that with children and wish that I had a time machine and wasn't so selfish in my actions with young children. I wish that I would have kept it legal and just cherrished them for who they are and not what I wanted from them.

another.life4187 wrote:Coming from one, I would be happiest hugging her. Taking her to the movies. Talking with her. Showing up for her dance recital. Laughing, smiling, dancing, and everything that normal couples get to do. Is anyone else like this?

Yes.

another.life4187 wrote:Another question to pedos, who are you besides your attraction? We are the most hated group on earth but have no voice. What media do you like, and what media is there about us?

I'm an unfocused musician that also does painting and drawing. I've also been in the world of video game development. There's a lot of media about paedophiles. 99% of it, that I've seen, heard, read, and played features/depicts a paedophile as the edgy evil villain. I've hardly came across anything featuring a protagonist that is a non-offending paedophile just trying to live a happy life while dealing with his/her paraphilia. Or, perhaps I'm just blind and deaf, I dunno.

I find minors physically attractive but I would much rather just play games and spend time and make them happy. Just being close and being someone they can trust and confide in is enough. Kinda like a long distance relationship.

As far as personal interests, I play instruments, I dance, I am a little obsessed with body mods.Tattoos and piercings are the sexiest things I'm into different types of music, particularly metal. Totally into scifi and anime/manga. *fangirl squeal*

Most girl-lovers I've met thus far seem to be passionate/intelligent people.

Nezumi wrote:One of the things I like about children is their honesty. They tend not to be as manipulative or aloof as "grown ups." They're also more in touch with their feelings and are easier to talk to.

I agree. With adults, I'm always paranoid that they're only being nice to me because they feel sorry for me. Boys are much more honest, so when a boy acts like he wants to spend time with me, I know that he genuinely does and he probably doesn't think I'm pathetic.

dead poetic wrote:

Nezumi wrote:One of the things I like about children is their honesty. They tend not to be as manipulative or aloof as "grown ups." They're also more in touch with their feelings and are easier to talk to.

I agree. With adults, I'm always paranoid that they're only being nice to me because they feel sorry for me. Boys are much more honest, so when a boy acts like he wants to spend time with me, I know that he genuinely does and he probably doesn't think I'm pathetic.

This says it all for me, both quotes. *applaudes*