ROCD.. I think??

Hi everyone,

I have been in a relationship for 5 months. i love him and we are a really good match. We have loads of fun together and I spend most of my time with him.

Lately though, I have started questioning if I really love him or not, am I really attracted to him, If I don't think about him all the time does that mean i'm not in to him. The thoughts make me sick to my stomach and I want them to go away asap. I am an obsessive overthinker and always have been. I have moments where I am fine and the thoughts go away for a bit, but then they come back and its all I can think about and I feel awful. Please if anyone has some good advice.

Thank you

I do the same, sweets.

Well, in the end, you pays your money, and takes your choice about who you want to be with.

I could spend all my time second-guessing my relationship choices, but there's really no point. I am where I am with who I am.

I don't think that you have to think about your hunny 24/7. Who would want to continue the intensity of feeling you have when you first feel love for someone? It would be exhausting... eventually things mellow out and level off, I think.

For a lot of people, anyway.

If you stop enjoying being with this person, then you may have a problem. until then..... try to not overthink this, sweets.