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Lesbian bi straight?

Postby Ela_ » Wed Dec 09, 2015 11:54 pm

Let me start off by saying I am a teenager. I know I should t be that worried about this right now but I have struggled with Ocd and possibly hocd in the past. When I was younger I always felt like I was straight. Now I am not so sure. I definitely am attracted to guys, but I am also attracted to girls. I can picture myself with both but I see myself more with a guy. I feel more comfortable with the idea of being with a guy and I've had many crushes on them. I've never had one on a girl. Now whenever I see a girl I get nervous which I sorta think is because I'm nervous I will be attracted to one. I sorta think this may be the ocd. I don't feel the same way with guys. It's like I can be relaxed while being attracted to them so it feels more natural. (Idk how to explain) . I've taken so many tests right after each other no many how many times I get straight as an answer. I don't believe the results so I keep going to one after another test all getting straight. I know I want to be straight. It's not that I have anything against any lgbtq people because I don't. All the power to you, I just want to be straight and I have been stressing out about this for soooo long. It is really bothering me and I will be satisfied with the answer I am straight then maybe a few weeks later I will start up again and get extremely stressed. If someone could help me that would be great!
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Re: Lesbian bi straight?

Postby Lisa1989 » Thu Dec 10, 2015 12:52 pm

Well, first off: what you want is all that matters. If you want to be in a straight relationship, then be in a straight relationship. I'm bisexual and I don't fear it the way you do. Even if I was gay I wouldn't fear it. Because you don't fear what you are. So that's why I think you have OCD. However, let me tell you one thing: since you're a woman, I doubt that you're completely straight. Recent studies have shown that women can be bisexual or lesbian but never straight. So embrace it. You can still CHOOSE to be with a man!

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/ ... aight.html
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