Otter wrote:The short answer is: yes. Obviously the more severe your anxiety is, the harder it's going to be, to do it alone.
I took a quick glance at the subjects Mark Freeman laid out, and it's not much different than what we talk about here, or what people talk about at other web sites, and with therapists.
But as you may have seen here, you can talk about it all day, but the rubber hits the road if the person who is suffering can adopt those "ideas" and work them into self therapy.
My course action was first meds, to slow the anxiety down, and then take it upon myself to learn techniques (like Mark). Once those were established I cut down on my meds.
Methods for getting better vary for each person. The first step is to own it, and then do something about it. What eventually works for you, will become apparent when you start trying things out.
Otter.
Thanks for the post, that's interesting.
That did pass through my mind. I mean, surely everything these people on YouTube like Marc are saying is essentially what the therapists tell you anyway?
What do you mean by own it? Come to realisation you have it, or?
Also, what sort of meds? Like anxiety tablets? That kind of thing?
Thanks again
-- Mon Nov 09, 2015 3:43 pm --
snaga2.0 wrote:It's possible.
I need to study CBT. I've no idea if I've unknowingly done that, or not.
I've had harm-ocd since about 1974.
I still get intrusive harm thoughts, but it's very rare that they bother me, at least the more outrageous intentional harm thoughts. Accidental harm.... It's a sliding scale for me. Committing murder is fairly Out There. Inadvertently running over a pedestrian is not so preposterous, so it has the potential of getting thru my defenses.
I still get intentional harm thoughts, but as Ot said, I own it. The thoughts come, and then they go. And I am not perturbed. They're just thoughts. They only have power if I let them.
If I wasn't also ADD and inattentive, I probably wouldn't worry as much about accidental harm as I do.
Interesting, so, do you mean to say you kind of got out of it bu accident or with your own form of therapy?
From what you're saying, it seems You utilised CBT methods when you talk about letting the thoughts come and go and accepting that.
Thanks allot for the reply.
-- Mon Nov 09, 2015 3:45 pm --
BornWarrantyVoid wrote:I've done it. Albeit through a twisted method at first, but eventually finding the root. A key to therapy is talk about & finding the root of what causes your ills, coming to accept & "settle" it in a way. If you can do this in your head, then it works just as well.
Interesting, so are you free from OCD now from doing this? Obviously I know the thoughts will always come, but so that they're not ruining your life now?