TOCD - Now I Have POCD - TRIGGER WARNING

Also, I don't remember anyone ever discovering they're gay (nor trans, but I am less familiar with that subject) after their puberty. They might accept it later, but everyone I have ever spoken to has noticed it at the age of 11, 12, 13. And if your therapist hasn't heard of Pure O, how good can they really be?

Jenner knew since she was very young.
Ru'Paul is a drag queen..

Also you ignored many good points I brought forward in regards of non-gender specific things.
There's is NO gender specific thing, movement, or thought.
Men can be into 'feminine" things, as much as women can be into "masculine" things.. does not make them another gender or half gender or any genderdifference.

I'm not sure what gender therapists do.. aside from find you resources , but if there job is to re-inforce gender stereotypes and nod there heads to you being transgender, then perhaps that's what you want.

POCD is a serious theme as well.. as are all forms of OCD, I'm worried for you man.. as you seem to just keep on convincing yourself (I've seen your old posts too) , and going further down that rabbit hole of future regret.

milica wrote:Also, I don't remember anyone ever discovering they're gay (nor trans, but I am less familiar with that subject) after their puberty. They might accept it later, but everyone I have ever spoken to has noticed it at the age of 11, 12, 13. And if your therapist hasn't heard of Pure O, how good can they really be?

I had a friend who discovered he was gay at 17 and I have read about people who have discovered it later. Check out shybi-guys forum, loads of people there who discover their sexuality later in life.

Also it is semi-common for people to think they are gay and then later discover they are trans.

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djslanty wrote:Jenner knew since she was very young.
Ru'Paul is a drag queen..

Also you ignored many good points I brought forward in regards of non-gender specific things.
There's is NO gender specific thing, movement, or thought.
Men can be into 'feminine" things, as much as women can be into "masculine" things.. does not make them another gender or half gender or any genderdifference.

I'm not sure what gender therapists do.. aside from find you resources , but if there job is to re-inforce gender stereotypes and nod there heads to you being transgender, then perhaps that's what you want.

POCD is a serious theme as well.. as are all forms of OCD, I'm worried for you man.. as you seem to just keep on convincing yourself (I've seen your old posts too) , and going further down that rabbit hole of future regret.

I know men can like feminine things......

I feel uncomfortable being treated as a man, wearing male clothing etc

I also sometimes have genital dyshporia.

And a gender therapist does not reinofroce gender stereotypes, that is the OPPOSITE of their role. They help people who are confused about their gender.

Also I have read a story of someone who thought they had OCD but discovered it was trans.

I discovered TOCD and it became a form of denial for me.

I am sicking of living a life where I am repressed so I shall do it no more.

FreshGuy, please read your PMs

Reading someone's story about this or that, or talking to someone about something, does not mean that it is the answer to people who suffer OCD, and in many ways acts like bomb being dropped on people here.

This thread is locked.

Otter.