Can't handle the intimate

So part of my OCD is the fear of getting pregnant. I have a hard time with toilets and showers. You would never catch me taking a bath.
Anyway so here I am, 21 years old and a virgin. I can't even kiss someone without freaking out. I'm not sure if I'm straight or bi or lesbian. Really I can handle any of those I just want to know. Its hard to know without physical intimacy though you know? I almost feel like I will default to being a lesbian because of the OCD. I know being gay isn't a choice. I'm so confused. Any else have this problem?

hi Krose. i'm not having the same problem. but i just wanted to tell you that OCD can't make you straight,or gay,or lesbi. the thing is.. it won't against your nature.

krose20 wrote:here I am, 21 years old and a virgin

lol. me too.

however, i hope things work out for you

Ya, OCD really has nothing to do with your issues...

You most likely have other issues.