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Feeling guilty if I don't donate to charity?

Postby anonymous1110732 » Tue Jun 24, 2014 10:11 pm

I feel guilty if I don't donate to charity or sign petitions for various causes. I just got two letters in the mail telling me to donate to their organizations, and now I feel bad if I don't do it. I'm also signed up for more non profit email lists than I can count, and I feel like I always have to sign their petitions, even if I'm not entirely sure I agree with a petition, then I just feel bad and sign it anyway because I support the organization in general. Should I donate to the charities I received letters from? It's not that I don't think donating to charity is a good thing, but I hate feeling guilty, and now it seems like I'd just be doing it to not feel guilty. And since I just graduated college and am unemployed, I'm trying to save my money for graduate school, etc. But that makes me sound like a horrible person, and I feel bad for not donating, and then I almost feel angry at the organizations for guilt tripping me. Is this horrible?
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Re: Feeling guilty if I don't donate to charity?

Postby bendib » Wed Jun 25, 2014 12:13 pm

No, just donate what you can afford, no more. You are a good kind person. A bad person wouldn't care at all. Sleep easy.
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Re: Feeling guilty if I don't donate to charity?

Postby anonymous1110732 » Wed Jun 25, 2014 2:53 pm

Thank you:)
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Re: Feeling guilty if I don't donate to charity?

Postby thinking13 » Fri Jun 27, 2014 4:44 am

You said you sign petitions and donate money for causes you haven't read through, just to avoid feeling guilty. That guilt sounds illogical and is probably related to OCD. If I were you, I would stop donating all my money until I have clear reasons for doing so, and not just to appease emotional impulses (sounds very compulsive.) Maybe draw up a list of the most worthy causes, and then figure out how much you can afford to give to each?
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