ROCD and my relationship

I have really bad ROCD and I don't really know what to do about it. My fiance is OCD as well and it's really hard for me to talk to him about because he starts going off at me about things.

I am plagued with constant feelings and thoughts that I might not love him or care about him and vice versa. These are all made worse by him at times as well because he tells me I don't in arguments and stuff.

He also goes on a lot of forums and tends to join the same ones as me and make i difficult because when I talk about it he gets upset and tells me that the people he talks to privately on there think I'm horrible to him and should be nicer and more understanding of his OCD not the other way around.

And my ROCD doesn't really like all the girls he talks about deeply private things with. About them and him and me and whatever. I don't want to tell him not to talk to girls but I find it really difficult and he gets insulted when I say anything but it's not that I think he'll cheat on me with them but my ROCD just drives me nuts over it. He talks to loads of pretty girls who tell him how wonderful and caring he is as he helps them through there OCD from dusk till dawn while he tells me I'm not allowed to talk about mine to him because it upsets him.

I love him but I don't know what to do...

From the sounds of it, your fiance needs to sort some things out. I don't think you're wrong to question your feelings for him based on that kind of behavior.