My ex did what??

My ex girlfriend instant messaged me on AIM saying we need to discuss things..... I didn't say anything..... Message came through again...... We really need to discuss things....... I didn't say anything..... She finally said alright I am coming right out and saying it I am asking janey to be my life partner I am asking her to marry me. I ignored her and signed off! Why tell me about asking janey to be her wife? Nearly a month ago she was cyberstalking me e-mailing me I need you!!!!and now a month later she needs to tell me she is asking janey to be her wife?? people do not tell the exes they are getting married unless A- They have some sort of feelings for them and hope they said something like you are making a mistake do not do it I love you! B- Getting a rise out them C- A and B plus unresolved feelings. I also know Tiffany my ex is a golddigger Janey is loaded her family is loaded so she has everything made in the shade so the engagement is not for love but for money basically...... Tiffany always loved ethnic girls . Janey is not ethnic so again she is out for money not for love and the bragging I am thinking it's part of her NPD getting attention but also apart of the BPD not letting go again why else would she keep bothering me?? What do you think?

I think Tiffany is a golddigger and is only engaged to Janey because her family is loaded and I think she is telling you that because her NPD needs attention and she's trying to get a rise out of you.

C

Stay away. Reserve yourself the right to be rude.

Butterflywings2 wrote:My ex girlfriend instant messaged me on AIM saying we need to discuss things..... I didn't say anything..... Message came through again...... We really need to discuss things....... I didn't say anything..... She finally said alright I am coming right out and saying it I am asking janey to be my life partner I am asking her to marry me. I ignored her and signed off! Why tell me about asking janey to be her wife? Nearly a month ago she was cyberstalking me e-mailing me I need you!!!!and now a month later she needs to tell me she is asking janey to be her wife?? people do not tell the exes they are getting married unless A- They have some sort of feelings for them and hope they said something like you are making a mistake do not do it I love you! B- Getting a rise out them C- A and B plus unresolved feelings. I also know Tiffany my ex is a golddigger Janey is loaded her family is loaded so she has everything made in the shade so the engagement is not for love but for money basically...... Tiffany always loved ethnic girls . Janey is not ethnic so again she is out for money not for love and the bragging I am thinking it's part of her NPD getting attention but also apart of the BPD not letting go again why else would she keep bothering me?? What do you think?

I think you still care for Tiffany and you want to know if her telling you this means she cares about you.

I think Tiffany wants to know if you still care. Because Tiffany needs to keep an inventory of her current sources. That's what Tiffany cares about.

Indifference is your friend.