Funny situation (Nons and NPDers)

Basically, I commented on a NPD blog on Facebook by a woman going through a divorce with somebody with NPD... She asked me her life story and I responded. All of a sudden, some woman gives me a "is this a joke" response - thing is, a mate who knows I have NPD decides to comment on this post.


What should I do basically? (obviously apart from wanting to have a massive go at this woman.. cos no disrespect, but I've not really not done anything wrong) - would a reply be gaslighting?

i think i have missed the whole point

jacknife wrote:i think i have missed the whole point

Her reply was pretty much "is this a joke" - implying.. 1) he's got NPD.. is he telling the truth or 2) trolling.

Also, I'm pretty open about NPD - telling other people doesn't really bother me. I was wondering how to respond to something like that - and how to do it without gaslighting.

Just to be sure (I'm not all that familiar with the terminology), your definition of "gaslighting" here includes simple/direct perceived attacks at the validity of what someone has just said, right?

Go for it , it's not like you know her , right?

tomster wrote:

jacknife wrote:Also, I'm pretty open about NPD - telling other people doesn't really bother me.

Does having a personality disorder make you feel special?

EDIT:

You''re a moron.

Finite Dreams wrote:You''re a moron.

Or maybe he's just bolder. Words, words... It's all relative.

Finite Dreams wrote:

tomster wrote:

jacknife wrote:Also, I'm pretty open about NPD - telling other people doesn't really bother me.

Does having a personality disorder make you feel special?

EDIT:

You''re a moron.

I never said that, wtf, it's a conspiracy, i knew it

jacknife wrote:wtf, it's a conspiracy, i knew it