damn n!

God friggin damn.. I am amazed at how the N potrays himself!
my n just ented MY chatroom that I visit the he never used unless to manipulate me... his Bio says..

Great guy here, funny, smart, handsome, 25yo, I love to ski and hike and make dinner for someone I really love...


FU*K YOU!


haha
Poor N, lost all his NS i say...
his profile head line went from "Seeking someone special" to "...................." yea, a buncha dots!

Sometimes I feel so..Uuuuuuuu.. Yea uuuuuu.. Almost EVERY guy, wether Narc or NOT Narc writes stuff like that when they put up a profile or whatever.
Almost EVERYONE wants to portray themselfs in a better light. I mean look at peoples pictures in Myspace or whatever. Do you think they look as good as they do in that ONE really good picture? Or are as SUuUuUpEr as they paint themselfs out to be? Almost everyone does it.. I get it Narcs hurt you, Narcs did alot of $#%^, but its like everything they do get blown out of proportions sometimes. Theyre the guys that everyone loves to hate..

/rant over

sounds like somthing my N would say. . . "everyone loves to hate the N"... no, everyone hate LOVING THE N.

Well he`s not your N anymore.. Just tell me, am I wrong about the profile thing or not? Im not looking to start anything here, but that is a VERY normal and common thing to do. Its not N exclusive..

There is a difference....
i AM nice, i AM cute, I AM polite, i DO care and i am somone worth getting to know.

the N is not. He IS NOT nice, cute, polite and doesnt care about anything...

At least be honest about yourself. . .

Arne wrote:

Its not N exclusive..

No Arne, it's not exclusive, but it is to the extreme with an N. Most men feel like they have to have the upper hand, in most situations. That's natural. Some are even more sensitive about it than others. But the narc feels they have to have the upper hand in every situation, whether it directly relates to them or not. They will interfere where ever, when ever and with who ever they can. It's called manipulation and they are experts.

I don't believe that thalilry08 is trying to make this a male/female issue. It IS a fact that most NPD's are male. But whoever it is that has NPD, the fact remains that they have a very hard time with letting go.

Does that mean I could have NPD? since I have a hard time letting go? I really don't think I have any disorder except giving to much and never asking a thing in return...
I let everything be about him, becuz that is how i thought he worked (now i know), I would do just about anything he wanted... he even manipulated me into a trio, 3sum, later i would find outt hat this was just going to set off a chain reaction and he would then just sleep around on me. Have a great thursday, get dumped friday, he hokups friday night with someone else, then sat calls me crying he loves me...
I never did that.....I was totally loyal.
But if the N has a hard time letting go, why does he completely forget you exist? or brush you off to the side..
I was always taught when you are involved with someone, you work things out to make it work, my parents have been together 35years, my sister is married, my brother engaged, my older brother since since high school, hes now 32. I am 25.

I was just trying to defend you, thalilry. Sorry if my comment upset you.

I'm going off of my N - he just doesn't want to let go. Keeps telling me his love will be enough for the both of us. Yuck!

Anyway, good luck.

Oh no no i was not offended.. It was a legit question.. lol
My X N did a god job at turning everything around on me, Ive tried to colaborate my thoughts and sort out what I actually did do and did not do.. thats all.
I dont think I fit the steriotype of a N anyway