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What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby jordan51 » Wed Nov 22, 2017 1:39 pm

We've all been there. That one person who you think is the most insufferable, weak, or pathetic human being ever to walk on this earth. How do you, as narcissists, react? (Violently, passive-aggressively, etc.?)
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby Spaced » Sat Nov 25, 2017 7:16 pm

Depends entirely on the situation. I'm not going to treat them a certain way if it makes me look bad or if they are in a position to make things difficult for me. My instinct would be to take a very polite but condescending attitude, although my behaviour isn't likely to reflect the extent of my negative feelings towards them.
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby Arthur » Mon Nov 27, 2017 8:07 am

Feel personally hurt by their imperfections and try to criticize them into becoming perfect
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby Knoxious » Mon Nov 27, 2017 7:18 pm

Pure disgust. I would ignore them, hoping to god they get exterminated sooner rather than later.
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby dazn153 » Wed Nov 29, 2017 8:02 pm

Knoxious wrote:Pure disgust. I would ignore them, hoping to god they get exterminated sooner rather than later.


Am I the weird one that actually wants to provide them advice on how to grow their ego so that they can convert from an underdog to something greater? :shock:
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby WhoElse » Mon Dec 04, 2017 9:30 pm

dazn153 wrote:
Knoxious wrote:Am I the weird one that actually wants to provide them advice on how to grow their ego so that they can convert from an underdog to something greater? :shock:


Get out! :P

I think it depends on where you stand with your disorder and which childhood forces are pulling your personality around. I can relate: I like to make people "better". I tend to err when it comes to people's own wishes in that regard.

I promoted a friend once, but he refused. I didn't get it.
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby Midwinter » Thu Dec 07, 2017 10:46 pm

dazn153 wrote:
Knoxious wrote:Pure disgust. I would ignore them, hoping to god they get exterminated sooner rather than later.


Am I the weird one that actually wants to provide them advice on how to grow their ego so that they can convert from an underdog to something greater? :shock:


It's because you take on their problems on your own. Typical borderline behaviour.
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby WhoElse » Sat Dec 16, 2017 12:24 am

Midwinter wrote:It's because you take on their problems on your own. Typical borderline behaviour.


After reading a couple of your posts, I wonder: You do realize that typical NPD behavior is rather toxic to society? Have you never had the wish to better yourself? Stop hurting people and all that? You sound a lot like myself two years ago ...
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Re: What is your reaction to "inferiors"?

Postby steerfield2017 » Sat Dec 16, 2017 7:14 am

I've never thought that way.

Even if I'm objectively stronger than everyone, equating stronger with better isn't rational. Thinking I'm superior can't improve my outcome, and would likely damage it.
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