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If We Met In Person

Postby whichway » Sun May 28, 2017 7:10 am

If I met you in person would you be the same person you are here on the forums? Would you behave the same way? Would I be able to "recognize" you?

Just curious to see where discussion might go...
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby Midwinter » Sun May 28, 2017 7:44 am

I would act the same way. But I think I behave rather normal.

I'm not sure you would be able to recognize me since I am controlled. I do not think narcissists last long in prison.
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby Kimera » Sun May 28, 2017 10:48 am

Well, I don't know whichway! How is it you would expect us to behave? I mean, if we had a NPD forum party at your house (thanks for having us over, btw), what is it you think we'd each be doing?
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby Midwinter » Sun May 28, 2017 10:54 am

Kimera wrote:Well, I don't know whichway! How is it you would expect us to behave? I mean, if we had a NPD forum party at your house (thanks for having us over, btw), what is it you think we'd each be doing?


Probably all be talking over each other about ourselves :lol: And then we would get all mad by the constant interruptions.
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby Kimera » Sun May 28, 2017 2:23 pm

Midwinter wrote:Probably all be talking over each other about ourselves And then we would get all mad by the constant interruptions.

That's probably true, Midwinter. But I call dibs on provoking kaloya into a full on rage.

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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby whichway » Sun May 28, 2017 6:18 pm

Kimera wrote:Well, I don't know whichway! How is it you would expect us to behave? I mean, if we had a NPD forum party at your house (thanks for having us over, btw), what is it you think we'd each be doing?


How shall I decorate? Mirrors everywhere? :lol:

I'm assuming that everyone would be the same as they are on the forum, perhaps with a little more reservation. I'm just wondering how radically different anyone might be compared to how "open" they are here.

Midwinter wrote:Probably all be talking over each other about ourselves :lol: And then we would get all mad by the constant interruptions.



:lol: :lol: I might enjoy this!
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby big Anatoly » Sun May 28, 2017 6:53 pm

IT would be quite entertaining. I would be the same, for I tell the truth here for optimal benefit. Imbibe in beers, smokes,play poker, eat my magnificent food. We could likely converse for a long time even if conceded, great discussion.
There would be at least one brawl.
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby Jasmer » Sun May 28, 2017 7:45 pm

Depends.

Do we know that we both are forum members and which members we all are? I mean if so, I might not bother being very reserved about a lot of things. If we're strangers or don't know that each of us post here, I might be quite different. Depending on the situation. I can be glib and charming, and a bit of a social chameleon.

In person I laugh and joke a lot, which I don't really do much here.
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby xlostintranslationx » Sun May 28, 2017 9:05 pm

Do I really 'behave' in any way on here? I don't really see this as social interaction the way I usually post. (And this subforum is pretty serious anyway).

I mean in real life I'm usually very quiet and reserved. So that's probably how I'd be. I'd just observe mainly.
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Re: If We Met In Person

Postby xlostintranslationx » Sun May 28, 2017 9:57 pm

And yeah whichway how do you specifically see everyone on this forum then?
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