Where could this be placed?

The thread starter seemed innocent enough. But, the moderator is gone for the weekend and no answers will come to my flat out freezing of the topic I started because she just did that. No explainations why it was done...no PM to the thread starter to find out what he was after. Just a power thing. You are gone because I believe, You have a "sexual attraction thread. And this is Forum!" Like I didn't know that. So enough of what she believed it should be and let's go onto what I WANTED it to be. Is this OK?

The thread I would like to start is a knowledge thread. Educational. It's about "Image."
Between men, women and each other. I saw the men's thread and... just saw the same old thing... the women's thread seemed to be going after deeper subjects. Subjects that looked for answers more intricate... so I decided to place it there, because I know the guys go there too. There is nothing in the rules that say... Male goes to these threads only

I guess us men just don't like to talk about intake unless it's about a carburator... joking! The thread I would like to start would be a thread on image. Not only the image men see to men and women see to women... but women to men.

So the sexual thread area. You would think but it's not about sexuality its about image! How society see's image. So, I know you site heads would not even look at this before filing it in chapter 13 if I didn't have a healthy reason?

So here it is.

This psych forums. Any psych major will tell you thaqt psych and soc. go together. (Pyschiology and sociology go together.) They are intercupled.

Examples. I knew that was coming. OK. Let me see!

A young lady is depressed. She is upset because someone...a "cheerleader) or higher social person, (not picking on cheerleaders becasue I was marriewd to one,) said her hair is wrong.

That must be in the women's forum...

Yet, this high mucky muck said she must cut it or she will never be popular in school. so she is ready to cut her hair, because she wants to be popular. BUt she hasn't figured out some things that parents can tell her or nice social workers...especiall social workers... since they have so much knowledge on the social end of psychology.

I wanted it to be men's area too. Why? Because of this I would eventually put down..,. where a guy actually could use his knowledge to better his daughters self-esteeme. The most important thing in this worls to me... but, I have a daughter of my own and the feelings that I have now reflect why I put these things down. The best for my daughter...and the best for any girl her age!

As a writer of fan fiction...you are geting so tired... you are looking for something else to read... so... I must stop here... if the POWERS AT BE (WAHHHH!) say it's OK!

OK...If you looked at my last forum post... and you were smart... you would leave this thread and go on to something else at the beginning.

STOP RIGHT THERE! You have an invite into the last post... and you get all, the rights and privs that come with it... so pack your popcorn and suck on those sodas...

Once upon a time ina land far far away______

What happened to the film?
I'm sorry it's dead, sir,
Dead. Something out of Pysche forums is coming...
Hold on sir...

AAARAS as I was saying, we are talking about images. Ho women see women and men see men and how they see each other.

Hold on...

"NO this post wiull not be closed by giving soap on the rope for the guys and bubble bath for the ladies... that's uncalled for... where where we.

All the others, who were bribing me to stop this thread left and I took the soap on the rope and smelled that "Old Spice sent." And the ladies were taking... sorry I can't see I am a guy and seeing girls bathing is not right... but I was really interested in what they were using. OH... you are waiting for me... "ThAT'S NICE."

OK... wee have two different people. Boys and girls. What makes a 3 yearold boy and three year old girl? Exploration! Cool... I never part of the back yard. Mom, can I pick these flowers?"

"Gerald is here to see you!" Gerald. Gerald the boy. Girl runs up and says hello. Guys are an inigma. The are just like anyone else , but the are dirtier. And, all the ahve to do is clean themselves.

Geralds thoughts. Wow... This is "Jenny." Jenny wears a nice pinkish outfit with long dark hair and is wondering what we were going to do to play. Gerald, noticing the feminine nature he grew up with and sees the clothes is looking at the waste length hair of Jenny because waiste length hair isn't something he comes by in little girls... except for his sisters... and they are "yuck". If a guy has any hair like that... it's so rare it's dead. But, her hair is interesting. Jenny becomes self-conscience because a boy... not a "brother" is staring at her. Gerald is becoming self conscious because he sees her down cast eyes as rejection. So, we know. At this tiny age, we have an idea of what we like and what we don't like... and each child jumped to conclusions.

So... girl thinks guy hates her and guy is wondering why she hatres him!

This is important...it's a sociological issue on a psych forum... Oh G*d Can I go on! On?

As I had told you... girls and boys are pretty much told by society (Sociology) where they are.

Two children need to go to the nathroom...they really need to go for they are only 5 years old and they need to find that place.

Two children a girl and a boy. Don't worry readers... they have found the bathrooms... yet with no parent present to tell them which is the boys and girls, where are they going to go? If Mom or Dad can't point to the door... where do they go.

Fear not parental figures! They know where to go. They can't read, but they sure know were they can go to the bathroom.

"Gerald..." macho man... and everything that makes him tough... sees a figure of a round head with slacks... that is men's.. .even though he read it... and nature calls...

But the young lady... what did I call her... oh, this is terrible... Julie? OK let's just use Julie... I know many Julies and I liked them... (I stick my tongue out at you.) Little Julie sees her brother go into his place so, the other place must be right...right...

What if it's another guys bathroom...maybe there is more guys here... and the girls bathroom is hard to find. She sees the figure on the door. The head is round, but with a bell shape... like a woman with a curl in her hair..."I know that." Curls. Girls have curls. Right. And, there is no trousers like the guys wear, it shows a nice skirt or dresss. My mom puts these on me, so bravely she goes into the bathroom.

This is all a representative of how, from an early age we are conditioned to know who is a guy or a girl. So at a very early age... we have some incling of what girls do and what boys do.

This sets the stage for understanding in later life when sexuality takes play. The point is no one seems to show the simularities and differences.

OK. Can a man do this? This makes the thread or breaks it... OK. Can a man explain his daughter having her period, can he love her just as much? Can he trust her with anything! And, even if that trust is broken... can he rescue this situation himself. Who is a father to teen girl? Is he reading the paper and doesn't even know she exists../. or when she comes home she talks to her Dad at the table with the family. Mom wants to talk about the day... but, Dad syas... hold on JUlie is saying something? Is she just something toi be brushed under a rug, or is she someone who has such selkf worth, Dad really wants her to express herself and together, they set a situation where sahe conquers the world?

Men are always on the bottom of the list when it comes to nurturing. But, what if a man, wanted a daughter... not a son... no disappointment there. His life showed him... boy, a very young boy and we became inseperable ... my really little brother... we had fun... I loved him... but, now married, he sees a little girl coming out. He knows he's biased. He had seen his brother...so fine...but a little girl being born out of her mom... you are the father!

She is so unsuspecting of what is happening...

"I was comfortable in my place but now I am here... outside where its could... I don't know what's going on? I smell my mom... but, I am put on the hard metalic surface and I am washed, when I never needed to be washed... where am I? I am terrified! Why is this happening? I want to back into that nice wet area where I never had to worry about anything anymore... but, they poke me with something that hurts and I am bleeding. They spray something in my eyes and I don't like it.

But, I do like this though, I feel blankits around me... and I get warm. I feel alittle better... but I don't like it so I cry, but you can't understand me! Why can't you understand?

And, I have my little daughter in my arms... She has that face like she is going to raise hell with her voice... but, this is different. Once I held her, I said, "Hello Vicky." She registered that beacon inthe night. Her dialated to see me as best she could, but there was no mistaking it at all. She knew my voice. And, that made comfortable...like she was thinking... OK...everything is al right now.

That is a fatherly love. When you get older, because of that beautiful experience, you nuture others... being in psych as a nursing assistant in the 80's... it all comes together.

I have a nurturing spirit.

Now, you know me.

Someone thought I was just putting down a discussion about sexual attractiveness between men and women... and she said that this was a FORUM, not designed for this. I was thrown aside... no reply from administrators... about what I was trying to work on... nothing... This is not right... for no reason... Said done...

I was hoping to discuss what image is all about between the sexes... not sexualoity in general...though it does reach that topic... I was hoping to bring out fact and illusion about the image we have in 20th century America and 21 first century America. Maybe someone should create a sociology forum...

I am sorry you feel that I should not have locked the thread but I stand by my decision. I am not away this weekend as you well know by the fact I locked your thread yesterday. If you want to discuss this more please PM me. Thank you.

Cracked

Lockep up... going elsewhere...

Thread locked. This topic is not relevant to the Member's Corner forum.