poisonedcribellum wrote:man am i glad that people who find nothing great in dressing up and make up and all that actually exist.....all i used to get for not 'dressing up' or not wearing make up was...'u know u could actually look good if you put on some make up'.....'or wore something a little more flirty'........'u could actually get a boyfriend if you just did something to yourself'(never wanted some one like tht)........i always thought screw that...what's the point.....i like being this way....nobody becomes less human for not wanting to curl their freaking eyebrows or do my nails...
so to chucky,lucdor,ironangel....and anyone else...just thanx for being alive
And thank you for seeing it that way. I never liked make up, perfume, highheels, and all that frivolous stuff a lot of women put on to try and make themselves more attractive. I think the natural beauty looks fine and most of the time the junk they put on just distracts from it and looks shallow. I realize the reasoning behind it and how it makes them feel special and what not. Girls get comments when they look "nice" on some days. This is usually because of the make up they wore or some outfit they choose and so they try to feel that way everyday. I much perfer a woman who's fine with who she is without the need for all that shallow attention that is attracted by the superficial stuff. This is one of the reasons I don't find models or actors attractive, they seem superficial. Don't cave in! When you dress like that you just attract people who are attracted to that...so basically people who are only interested in looks. I'm probably stereotyping a little too much but it's generally true.
LoveQuiet wrote:"Sexy = (intelligent + compassionate) + (confident + modest)"
Pretty good formula but I would take out the confident. I personally don't require that for attractiveness and a lot of times confidence turns into arrogance or too much pride which I definitely do not like, but I guess that's why modest is in there. Id throw in free-thinking possibly.
When I was a child I spoke as a child I understood as a child I thought as a child; but when I became a man I put away childish things.
I Cor. xiii. 11.