i already am waiting for explosion...

My mother in law announced she was flying to visit me and her son in fall. No polite asking just announces. This Bat gets under my skin big time. I have always stayed silent to her stupid rude comments. But now she will be on my turf cuz i pitched in money for this house shes intruding. I constantly feel bad about myself cuz people are nasty to me...snide comments..rolling eyes atme..etc. but no more! Im done w other peoples garbage bringing me down! I already beat alcoholism now i will attack this problem. Im tired tho.of being nice...i have a bad feeling she is going to make me explode on her! She is one of those people that uses little innuendos and snide comments to bash you. Like im too stupid to figure it out. So its june and im thinking now of her dreaded visit. I hope for her sake she keeps her mouth shut around me. I noticed she can dish out her crap...but when ive confronted her..she exits room. I really love it too. I never forget anything either. I stay angry at the person.