Disordered Mother Keeps Using Powerchair As Weapon

Who would think a so called "elder" would do something like that? I've read of the rage of pd's but am shocked at this repetitive form of attack she is using against people. She ran over my aunt's foot first, making it look like an accident, then the driver who took her to a medical visit whilst he was holding the door.

Now she actually-a day after a spine procedure-charged at me (making it look like she was coming closer to ask me a question) with her powerchair and ran into me and ran over my foot. That really upset me, and in reality it is an Aggravated Assault with a weapon (the chair of course, like when people use a car to run people over). Anyway still going through resources that are going to resolve these issues but they sure take more time than I wish.

Oddly it is she who, for whatever reason, is making veiled threats that I was "elder abusing" her because she got all dopped up one night, faked a fall to get attention, and then blamed me for "sleeping through it when she was calling for help". Crazy though, because when I came in she had a pillow under her head. Plus she never called me until like my fourth cup of coffee, meaning it was a big sham anyway. But she needs to cover her bases with her sister who gets mad when she needs to call 911 because of her "falls".

I hate to say it but this woman is a criminal. No other way to put it. Getting out will be so liberating. I cannot wait to heal up and get a little more stronger in my legs. I think these injections have helped me. They said the injections would help with pain but I feel they have made my legs stronger as blocked some of the muscle weakness of a pinched nerve.

I grieve though, how many children can honestly say that they have been ran over by their parent intentionally? She is getting very narcissistic raging because I have emotionally detached and told her I didn't want to live with her anymore. But she wants to know where, when, how, and stuff that is "no longer" her concern. That, my act of keeping things to myself, is driving her crazy. She is going through my room and searching it every time I leave (I tape it and hear the audio because I have a metal cabinet where I keep stuff I don't want her to have access to like my counselor's name, friends contact list, password lists, etc), so when she tries to pick the lock you can hear her (this so called disabled woman who claims she can't move) going to work within minutes after I leave the house.

I feel after I leave that I need to press charges against her. This is now the second time she has attacked me (all by accident of course!) with a powerchair. She can drive this thing up and down a ramp with her eyes closed, yet she claims to not be coordinated enough to drive it around people "sometimes"...especially when she feels like they did something wrong or whatever. The narcissistic rages of the pdi is no joke.

Well, I pretty much let go of it all. Yet, in this case I must admit that I can't believe this is actually my mother we're talking about...not an ex. It hits a lot harder this way. Now she has also recently been studying the user manual of the powerchair and been trying to "break it" so that the store will think something is wrong with it and exchange it for a "better one" of her liking. She has also been destroying the house in subtle ways. Like I said before, she wants to sell this house, so she is making it break down in sneaky ways so she can convince her sister to replace it all. She extorts her sister again and again for money and gets her to fix or replace things that she broke.

To say my mother is a poor excuse for a human being because she is Hpd, bpd, aspd, and npd...any other cluster b pd you could dream up...is not true. She is a poor excuse for a human being for using her illnesses and age advantage to defraud: Medicare (for the newer scooter or a better model, breaking an item medicare paid for so they replace it...that is part of medicare fraud), to defraud her sister (too many areas to count), and to not only emotionally abuse me all these years (only the last year or so did I begin to become convinced it was this bad, and this took time to "be sure of"), but now to actually physically abuse me by,

Running into me intentionally with a powerchair, even to the point where she ran over my foot.

I predict the next thing she will have time to destroy will be my computer...another instance of criminal damage to add to her roaster...When they use the term "bullying", one usually doesn't think of an elder masquerading as a hadicapped person...and a woman at that. It is simply part of emotional abuse: bullying. But dang...an elder with a powerchair? I almost feel numb now, not even hate, just numbness towards her with a justified distain anyone would consent is "righteous" towards her and her little games.

Tadlock, it's good that you are going to move out of this situation. Of course, this is the last thing that your mother wants, and she will do everything in her power to prevent you from going. Now that you have told her, you may have to call her bluff, retract what you have said, and make her believe that you are going to stay. This will lull her into a false sense of security, so that when you do get the chance to leave, you will have the element of surprise on your side. It's sad that in having to be one step ahead of her, you too are having to resort to devious tactics, and this is one way in which abusive people can drag a person down. It's almost as if it's a necessary evil, in order for you to make your escape. Remember that she doesn't think in the same way that most people do, and that you will need to prevent her from knowing anything, anything at all, that could give her the upper hand. This means keeping silent about your plans to leave, and to leave when she is least expecting it. Attacking you or anyone with her power chair is very serious, and yes, of course "disabled" old people can bully. Having proof of her bullying will help you in case she tries to accuse you of abuse towards her.

Tadlock -

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Tadlock, hope you don't mind, I'm going to send you a PM with a few more thoughts.

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