Do HPD's ever consider their bf/gf?

My HPD friend from down the street, who I had sex with a few weeks ago, was talking with a guy during that time and is now officially "in a relationship" with him. I still talk suggestively with her as if she is not in a relationship, and her behavior is kind of funny to me.
For example, I ask her when she's going to have me back down for another romp and she says "I don't know...I have mixed feelings because I don't want to hurt current bf." Mixed feelings???
Yesterday, to kill time I started texting with her and jokingly told her she makes me feel like a ho. She asked why and I said "Because you ###$ me one time and kicked me out on the street" and she replied "but that makes ME look like the ho." I responded "Well, in that case you should come to my place and I'll kick you out after we ###$."
Any other woman would take offense at that, and would probably say "Look, I now have a boyfriend, and we are committed, so if you are going to talk sexually with me I can't talk with you anymore." Not her. I just keep pushing and pushing to see how far I can go. I guess anything goes as long as they can score attention, right? While all of this is going on with me (and who knows how many others) she posts on FB things like "I have the greatest boyfriend!" and "He's a keeper!"
Is there a chance for this HPD to ever have consideration for her significant other? It's comical how far I can go and never offend her.

NowIGetIt wrote:My HPD friend from down the street, who I had sex with a few weeks ago, was talking with a guy during that time and is now officially "in a relationship" with him. I still talk suggestively with her as if she is not in a relationship, and her behavior is kind of funny to me.
For example, I ask her when she's going to have me back down for another romp and she says "I don't know...I have mixed feelings because I don't want to hurt current bf." Mixed feelings???
Yesterday, to kill time I started texting with her and jokingly told her she makes me feel like a ho. She asked why and I said "Because you ###$ me one time and kicked me out on the street" and she replied "but that makes ME look like the ho." I responded "Well, in that case you should come to my place and I'll kick you out after we ###$."
Any other woman would take offense at that, and would probably say "Look, I now have a boyfriend, and we are committed, so if you are going to talk sexually with me I can't talk with you anymore." Not her. I just keep pushing and pushing to see how far I can go. I guess anything goes as long as they can score attention, right? While all of this is going on with me (and who knows how many others) she posts on FB things like "I have the greatest boyfriend!" and "He's a keeper!"
Is there a chance for this HPD to ever have consideration for her significant other? It's comical how far I can go and never offend her.

can i ask a dumb but serious question, why are you still flirting suggestively with her when you know she is in a relationship now?

- to answer your serious post, i don't think you realize that SHE IS considering her boyfriend. you are making more though mentally out of her comments... you are just having fun with her and she expects that you know that, if you were to try to actually sleep with her she would cry rape at that point. just an fyi'. ---> and hence your call to drama that you so see out of "HPD's".

one other detail, i don't think "any other woman would have responded that same way". that is called "game", and you are finally developing it. good for you! ~ but do remember it is "just a game". if you go and sleep with her now that she has informed you she has "mixed feelings" she will probably cry rape....

- Labor.


as a side note:

Does an HPD's parents ever consider their children? so my parents go and do all this to me and than pretend like it never happened and just assume i have already forgiven them... which is a granted yes for the most part. sort of i guess but now after this post i'm not so sure i should, or should trust them?

it's like a "game" to my parents... who can oppress whose will the farthest without clearly being "in the wrong".

- Labor

can i ask a dumb but serious question, why are you still flirting suggestively with her when you know she is in a relationship now?

He's hooked.

anonymous1 wrote:

can i ask a dumb but serious question, why are you still flirting suggestively with her when you know she is in a relationship now?

He's hooked.

......... ..........

Lover boy.


I don't think HPDs do ever consider their SO in their schticks, unless they make an effort to, which for the most part their inclinations are against.
With that, they should not be in a relationship imo.

NowIGetIt wrote:

anonymous1 wrote:

can i ask a dumb but serious question, why are you still flirting suggestively with her when you know she is in a relationship now?

He's hooked.

......... ..........

... i don't understand this response ... ?

- Labor.

I was being introspective. It means I was mad at first, then neutral, then laughed at that response.

yea... but that isn't what i meant, was it my question or was it the reason why the guy keeps flirting with the HPD?

- Labor.

The latter.

anonymous1 wrote:The latter.

This.