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Attention Please. You are entering the Histrionic Personality Disorder forum. Please read this carefully.
Given the unique propensities of those who are faced with the issues of HPD, topics at times may be uncomfortable for non HP readers. Discussions related to HPD behavior are permitted here, within the context of deeper understanding of the commonalties shared by members. Indulging or encouraging these urges is not what this forum is intended for.
Conversations here can be triggering for those who have suffered abuse from HPDs. .
Non HPD users are welcome to post here, But their questions Must have a respectful tone.
If you are a NON and have issues with an past relationship with an HPD person, it is suggested that you Post in a Relationship forum. Here is a link to that forum: relationship/
For those who have no respect for either this illness or for those who are living with it, please do not enter this forum. Discrimination of Personality Disorders is not tolerated on this site.
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Re: Your Opinion please (HPDs)
by masquerade » Wed Dec 14, 2011 10:23 pm
Yes, you're right. People expect perfection from themselves and perfection from others, and no one can live up to these ideals, so they're immediately setting themselves up for failure. My therapist taught me that being simply "good enough" is something positive to aspire to. If we all had unconditional love as children, with nothing being imposed upon us to "earn" that love, then there would be fewer dysfunctional relationships, fewer personality disorders, and fewer co dependents. We all owe it to ourselves to learn to love ourselves in a healthy manner, just as we are, and by learning to do that, we can then learn to love others in positive ways, imperfections and all. That isn't to say that we should accept bad treatment, but with a healthy self love, we can all learn to place appropriate boundaries, and also to monitor our own behaviour.
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Re: Your Opinion please (HPDs)
by Remis Fargo » Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:24 am
Thanks for adding this points, archigallus. Simply being, good enough, instead of trying to rp the perfect puppet. Autonomy!
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