hpd, if I can born again after I die,

if I can born again after I die
and if there's a next life
in my next life,
I will never be a girl again.

I will never be a pretty girl in the next life. -even though I am not pretty in this life too

Never. and never.

I want to be a successful man and I want to have a pretty blond girlfriend.

I used to think I want to born as a girl if I can reborn after I die

but nono.

I got to know too much about life.

it is a tragic thing

what about you?

what do you want to be born as in your next life everyone?

I don't want to be born again as anything.
I would hate to think that I have to try again as sometihng else to live the right kind of life to be admited to an afterlife. But admited as what after you have tried 2,3,4 and more times?
If I would have to go though another life in an effort to live it correctly because an after life does actually await me then I'd be any meat animal born to any farm. My life would then be very short and offer me MUCH less opporunity for me to taint my karma in a bad way.

As an animal!

I can understand.

then, I want to born as an egg pudding displayed in a pretty bakery

and I wish a cute little girl to eat me and be happy

I don't know.

My personal experience is that we humans are rarely satisfied. No matter how good we have it, we have a tendency to be unhappy and think the grass is greener if only we had x, y, or z. Not everyone, but as a general pattern it seems common.

There is actually a good argument I read from a psychologist that this tendency to be unsatisfied could be a key reason in why humans have evolved intellectually, why we build structures, farm the land, build comfort devices, etc. We're simply not content to just survive. We want more, and are driven to create if that's what it takes to improve on what we have. So from that point of view our tendency to be unsatisfied is a positive trait, even though personally we're often miserable.

However the psychologist went on to discuss how this applies to relationships as well. No matter how good our relationships are, we have a tendency to believe they could be better still, or our lives could be better if only we or our lives were different. Then once we finally achieve that, again we're unsatisfied and want more, endlessly.

Personally I think the psychologist is/was on to something, and one of the things that we can introspect about ourselves is our own level of feeling "unsatisfied no matter what". I mean, to honestly see something about ourselves that is not easy to come to grips with. To ask ourselves, if we had the next thing we think we want, would we really be satisfied? Or having that, would we just be unhappy yet again, believing that the next thing/difference would make us happy?

I think you'd be disappointed. lol There are good and bad points involved with being either gender. It's been said that it's natural for one sex to envy the good points of being the opposite... In favor of seeing the crappy part of their roles.

me? I hope that we don't come back. It would mean that I'll never see my Mother again. I miss her a lot.

I like the idea of reincarnation, of learning karmic lessons. Those who believe in karma say we reincarnate with the same people again and again until we learn certain lessons. They say we meet people for a reason, which means that in another lifetime I would come across all of you guys again!! lol

masquerade wrote:I like the idea of reincarnation, of learning karmic lessons. Those who believe in karma say we reincarnate with the same people again and again until we learn certain lessons. They say we meet people for a reason, which means that in another lifetime I would come across all of you guys again!! lol

It's maybe straying a little bit from the topic, but there's a great deal of documented scientific study on the various topics of life after death. and some VERY substantial anecdotal accounts from near death experiences where people returned with information that was impossible for the person to know, guess, or learn... If interested, drop a quick P.M. to me and I'll send ya some links.

masquerade wrote:I like the idea of reincarnation, of learning karmic lessons. Those who believe in karma say we reincarnate with the same people again and again until we learn certain lessons. They say we meet people for a reason, which means that in another lifetime I would come across all of you guys again!! lol

Follow your therapy to the best, or some of the nons here might be born as histrionics as you as a nice guy, to get you punished and make you taste your own medicine.

That doesn't bear thinking about!!!! Or even worse, they could be the mods on the forum, I could be the member and they'd lock my posts!!!!!! Must be good in this life time... must be good....

masquerade wrote:That doesn't bear thinking about!!!! Or even worse, they could be the mods on the forum, I could be the member and they'd lock my posts!!!!!! Must be good in this life time... must be good....

Yes in Buddhism it says that even a person you just simply went acrossed on the street is the person who you met 5000 times in your past lives.
masquerade helped me incredibly that I guess...
we would have been a loving couple in our past lives!

joke.