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Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
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Attention Please. You are entering the Histrionic Personality Disorder forum. Please read this carefully.
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Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by Sledge » Sat Jul 11, 2009 5:06 am
I wanted to pass this on to those of you that are ending or have ended a relationship with an HPD. Make sure that you delete them as a friend on your MySpace profile. The reason for this is because this is a way for them to keep tabs on you after you are gone and to see who you are now hanging out with. Dont be surprised if they try to contact any of your friends and start some manipulative BS. They will do it and they are very sneaky.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by ukbloke » Sat Jul 11, 2009 5:50 am
Nothing wrong with that. I follow 3 or 4 people on Facebook every time I log-on to see their actions, another 3 or 4 once every couple of days. As for saying bad things, that's pretty cowardly, but it'd just happen in real life anyway.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by Sledge » Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:10 am
Whats cowardly about saying the truth, this really did happen. Why you gettin your panties all knotted up ?
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by ukbloke » Sat Jul 11, 2009 6:15 am
As in, saying things over MySpace is cowardly, not you.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by cure_e_us » Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:28 am
Sledge wrote:I wanted to pass this on to those of you that are ending or have ended a relationship with an HPD. Make sure that you delete them as a friend on your MySpace profile. The reason for this is because this is a way for them to keep tabs on you after you are gone and to see who you are now hanging out with. Dont be surprised if they try to contact any of your friends and start some manipulative BS. They will do it and they are very sneaky.
I completely agree with you Sledge. I have seen this for myself as well. They WILL contact whatever friends you have on there and try to sway them to their side of things. They are master manipulators and their lies will be believed over the truth. Delete them, maybe delete yours - do not let them know about you at all.
Just had to comment ~ it's so true.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by mabpac » Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:39 am
Mine made friend requests to all of my friends, even those she didn't know. Then she created a second page on both MySpace and Facebook, then blocked me from her pages when I didn't take the bait. Nothing like acting like an adolescent. Glad she's out of my life.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by caro81VA » Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:46 am
The most important part about eliminating them as a friend (or better yet, leaving Facebook altogether so you can't see their posts on friends' pages) is that you won't have to be exposed to their behavior anymore.
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by mabpac » Wed Jul 15, 2009 4:31 pm
AMEN!!!!!!!!!! 
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by MyWave » Fri Jul 17, 2009 1:22 am
caro81VA wrote:The most important part about eliminating them as a friend (or better yet, leaving Facebook altogether so you can't see their posts on friends' pages) is that you won't have to be exposed to their behavior anymore.
Exactly...They can no longer harm you if you cut them off completely. My ex vampire did everything she could to keep delivering what I call 'second hand news' my way. Ofcourse it was all sugar coated with how amazing her world is now or the message was designed to entice me to make contact and rescue her.
I moved 2000 miles away and I also cut off any other possible way for her to contact me. Keep your no contact forever firm and the manipulation ends
You feed the fire that burned us all
When you lied
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
~ Alice in Chains
When you lied
To feel the pain that spurs you on
Black inside
~ Alice in Chains
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Re: Beware of keeping HPD as a friend on your MySpace !
by Musician924 » Wed Aug 12, 2009 3:32 pm
I have to agree with MyWave on this one. There is no being friends in life, Facebook, MySpace, Twitter or anything else with an HPD X, post relationship. They can't make clear cuts, they keep coming back either directly or insidiously to old relationships, so to protect yourself and may be even them, you have to be the one to make a clean cut in the relationship. I learned that mine had dinner with my Psychoanalyst, can you imagine that? Can you imagine how I felt about the threat of invasion into my utmost privacy and personal feelings. Now that's either an enormous coincidence, or proof that something is seriously wrong with that girl if it isn't. I don't suspect I shall ever know the truth (HPD leave enough ambiguities to cover their tracks very well, and even incriminate the other in case of reproach...), but that is another thing with HPD, they are so sly that they can invade the privacy of your life in such indirect/underhand ways. You have to cut off all contact and block all means of contact.
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